The Positive Sandwich

This year my son's school presented a new discipline system.  Also, another system came about this year which encourages six pillars of character.  The six include trustworthiness, respect, fairness, caring, citizenship and responsibility.  Each character helps a child feel good about themselves, put others first and take the time to listen to the rules and follow instruction.

Along with the teachers emphasizing these character traits and discipline at school, the parents become involved.  We continue teaching these traits at home and learn them ourselves.  If our child receives discipline at school, the teacher sends a note home explaining the reason for the demerit.  The teacher sandwiches the bad action with good actions your child displayed throughout the day.  A positive note is sent home occasionally as well so to focus on the good in our children.  Too often our children hear, "NO", or "Would you stop doing ______", or "You never listen to me", or even worse "You cannot do anything right".  Our children soak these negative words in their little minds and begin believing they are worth nothing or why even try, my parents will never be happy with me. 

I love how the teacher is pulling out the positives and changing the mindset for parents.  Okay, so my kid talked in school yesterday and received a demerit; so what, he is a great kid and carries out the tasks God lays before him each day.  Yes, we talk with him about respecting the teachers and keeping his mouth silent while in school, but we do not condemn him for one little mistake.  What if we were yelled at or berated when we lost our keys, forgot to pick up dry cleaning, cut someone off in traffic by accident or said a not so nice word?

"Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." (Ephesians 4:29)

"because judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful. Mercy triumphs over judgment."

(James 2:13)

"Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.  Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven." (Luke 6:36-37) 

These precious children God blessed us with do not deserve berating or condemnation.  Yes, teach them and guide them, but with God right next to you.  Ask Him for the right words, the right actions and solutions to help our children realize the way to go.  We envision our kids to be a certain way and place that standard on their life.  Guess what?  We are not in control of what our kids will become or how they act.  We can only do our part, with God as our leader, and build a solid foundation for these children to stand firm when facing this world. 

I saw a young mother going on and on about her child's negative attributes right in front of the child yesterday.  I became sad for the little boy because I cannot imagine what words soaked in his mind.  We need to build these little children up constantly.  This world tries to tear them down and judge every action.  Our children receive criticism about the way they look or what they wear.  Create a positive, uplifting atmosphere for these children when they come home.  Put aside your dreams and standards and live by God's standards.  God's mercies are new every morning; let your children know that your mercies are new every morning as well.  Teach, discipline and instruct, then move on.  Avoid reliving the same situation over and over.

God, thank you for this day.  Please change my attitude towards parenting.  Consume my every thought, action and words so I may build both my children up and teach them Your Truths.  Rid me of my standards or visions of how my children ought to be.  Help me see through Your eyes and love these children with every action of mine.  Thank You for blessing me with two beautiful kids.  Thank You for trusting me with this task.  I am willing and ready every day for this challenge.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Heed His Instruction

From birth, we listen for instruction and choose to follow them.  Toddlers listen to a parent's voice to learn the rules of life.  Preschoolers listen as mentors and parents prepare them to integrate into society.  School age children listen closely as a teacher instructs them on completion of homework and lessons.  At work, teens and adults must pay close attention to what the boss expects or a pink slip will be presented to them.  If sick or injured, we must accept help from doctors and follow prescriptions.  Our lives are placed in their hands. 

From birth, we have another option; to ignore instruction and not follow them.  Toddlers would be lost and receive much injury because they lack knowledge.  Preschoolers would act crazily in society and receive punishment.  School age children would fail in school.  Jobs would be lost.  The sick and injured would remain ill.  Our lives would be miserable.

"Whoever gives heed to instruction prospers,
and blessed is the one who trusts in the LORD." (Proverbs 16:20)

"then if anyone hears the trumpet but does not heed the warning and the sword comes and takes their life, their blood will be on their own head.  Since they heard the sound of the trumpet but did not heed the warning, their blood will be on their own head. If they had heeded the warning, they would have saved themselves." (Ezekiel 33:4-5)

We must humble ourselves and listen to instruction, warnings and teachings.  Just as from birth we learn to survive and function by accepting other's words; we must learn to survive and function as a Christian by accepting His Word.  He has been around a lot longer and knows what He is talking about.  Place your lives in His hands.  There is no better place you could be.

Ignoring His Truths only leads to frustrating, miserable, hateful living.  If we choose our own advice we increase the risk of failure and destruction.  God's Way always works.  Take the path leading to Him. 

God, thank you for this day.  Thank You for taking the time to guide me and teach me through Your Word.  Keep my ears open and my eyes focused on You.  I am Yours, use me in mighty ways.  I am ready to serve You.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig

Watch Out for That Link!

Someone came to Jesus with this question: “Teacher, what good deed must I do to have eternal life?”

 “Why ask me about what is good?” Jesus replied. “There is only One who is good. But to answer your question—if you want to receive eternal life, keep the commandments.”

  “Which ones?” the man asked.

   And Jesus replied: “‘You must not murder. You must not commit adultery. You must not steal. You must not testify falsely.  Honor your father and mother. Love your neighbor as yourself.’”

  “I’ve obeyed all these commandments,” the young man replied. “What else must I do?”

 Jesus told him, “If you want to be perfect, go and sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

  But when the young man heard this, he went away sad, for he had many possessions.

  Then Jesus said to his disciples, “I tell you the truth, it is very hard for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of Heaven.  I’ll say it again—it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of God!”

 (Matthew 19:16-24) NLT

I came across this Word from God in my latest study.  This one in particular spoke an important message for my journey.  The man above held riches beyond belief.  He thrived on his wealth.  As he approached Jesus and asked what it takes to enter Heaven, Jesus simply stated, "Keep the commandments."  Instantly the man asked, "Which ones?", as if one were more important than another. 

The man informed Jesus that he abided by all those.  There must be something else he could do to confirm a place in Heaven.  So, he asked, "What else can I do?"  Jesus asked him to sell ALL his possessions and follow Him.  Those words from Jesus caused the man much grief.  He turned with his head down and walked away. 

He walked away!

Can you relate to this man?  How often does God ask something of you that seems impossible?  Has God ever asked you to rid yourself of something holding you back from further travel on your journey?  Our response may sound like this, "Anything but that God; Okay, I will give you some of that, but not all; or Are you sure, God?" 

I am completely guilty.  I remember when God clearly showed me that my Anorexia must hit the door, never to come again.  "Okay, God take my meal plan, BUT I still want my exercise.  I need that to release anxiety caused from eating again."  Quickly, He said, "NO, Sheree I want all of the Anorexia."  My stubborn mind responded, "Yes, God take my exercise regimen, BUT I still want my alcohol to numb out of the anxiety caused from losing control and so I can 'fit in'.  I still want my OCD to feel some control of my surroundings."

What do you think was His response?  God said, "Sheree, your not listening, I want it ALL, so you may follow Me and become My servant."  The 'things' we hold onto in life prevent wholehearted service to Him.  It is simple, we must deny ourselves, pick up our cross, let Him break our chains and follow Him.  All these 'things' we keep allow Satan a foothold and then he plants one lie after another.  We use those lies to justify our actions; all the while, we slip further and further from His Truth.

Denying flesh desires seems so difficult at that very moment, but reach up and ask for help.  The moment passes, the dark clears and you may move forward on your journey with Him.  One day you begin to think about it and that flesh desire hasn't been around in a while; your chain is gone.  God took care of it all.  

Desires do pop up every now and again, but less often.  Also, you realize what tools to use to persevere.  Sometimes, God reveals a piece of the chain you still hold tightly or a piece of the chain you picked back up along the way.  Satan knows our weaknesses and watches for opportunity to bind you up again.  Satan will lay down one link at a time of your chains and entice you to pick them up.  Be aware, don't let Satan win.  

I still must surrender my bondages daily, sometimes hourly.  It depends on the day.  This journey of ours is not easy.  God understands and is empathic.  Seek Him and His advice.  He knows the results and will guide your every step if only you give Him the control.  Don't walk away from Him!  He knows your heart and will bless your every obedient step.  If you should stumble, remember this one thing, God's mercies are new every morning!

God, thank you for this day.  Thank You for continually refining me as I walk this journey with You.  I keep picking up links that should never enter my life again.  Keep me aware of Satan's schemes and give me the strength to persevere through the lies he tries to plant in my mind.  Step in and fight the battle for me.  I am too weak to do this on my own.  Carry me in Your arms and teach me how to serve wholeheartedly.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig  

Have a Good Laugh

Too often I become busy with "stuff" in life.  I will plan out my week and see no gaps appear in the schedule.  The "stuff" usually consists of doctors appointments, playdates, work, church, etc.  None of these are bad or unhealthy events, but keep me busy nonetheless.  In comes population ME.  When will I find time to just be me and relax?

I hear others say, "I will sleep/rest/relax when I die."  Really?  I don't believe God intends that mindset for our lives.  God wants us to laugh, have fun and enjoy all of His Creation.  We get too busy and lose sight of what He created for our pleasure.  He does not expect complete seriousness and running from here to there.  We can even get caught up in completing "good works".  We must remind ourselves it is not by works, but by faith we are justified.  Relax and enjoy His Creations.  Nowadays I know that it is easier said than done.  Make it a priority, put it on the calendar and pursue joyous times so you may laugh and have fun.

Laughter is the best medicine, so "they" say!

"He will yet fill your mouth with laughter
   and your lips with shouts of joy." (Job 8:21)

"Our mouths were filled with laughter,
   our tongues with songs of joy.
Then it was said among the nations,
   “The LORD has done great things for them.”
The LORD has done great things for us,
   and we are filled with joy." (Psalm 126:2-3)

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A Sunday school teacher was discussing the Ten Commandments with her five and six year olds. After explaining the commandment to "honor thy father and thy mother," she asked "Is there a commandment that teaches us how to treat our brothers and sisters?" Without missing a beat one little boy answered, "Thou shall not kill."

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-A Sunday School teacher decided to have her 2 nd grade class memorize Psalm 23, one of the most quoted passages in the Bible. She gave the children a month to learn the chapter.

One little boy was excited about the task, but he just couldn't memorize the Psalm. Although he practiced and practiced, he could hardly get past the first line. The day came for the children to recite Psalm 23 before the congregation. The little boy was nervous. When his turn came, he stepped up to the microphone and proudly said, "The Lord is my Shepherd and that's all I need to know!"

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-These sentences actually appeared in a church bulletin or were announced in a church service!

Bertha Belch, a missionary from Africa will be speaking tonight at Calvary Memorial Church in Racine. Come tonight and hear Bertha Belch all the way from Africa.

Announcement in the church bulletin for a National PRAYER & FASTING conference: "The cost for attending the Fasting and Prayer conference includes meals."

"Ladies, don't forget the rummage sale. It's a chance to get rid of those things not worth keeping around the house. Don't forget your husbands."

The peacemaking meeting scheduled for today has been canceled due to a conflict.

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-A minister told his congregation, "Next week I plan to preach about the sin of lying. To help you understand my sermon, I want you all to read Mark 17."

The following Sunday, as he prepared to deliver his sermon, the
minister asked for a show of hands. He wanted to know how many had read Mark 17. Every hand went up. The minister smiled and said, "Mark has only sixteen chapters. I will now proceed with my sermon on the sin of lying."

Laugh today.  Enjoy God's presence and all He created!

God, thank you for this day.  Send laughter to my mind and mouth.  Help me not to be so serious and task driven.  Thank You for all You created for my enjoyment. I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig

"Satan, Recess is Over!"

I clean and maintain the house, but not without a bitter attitude.  Too often my thoughts drift to think, "No one else helps me around here.  I have too many other things I should be doing.  I would love to just sit and relax and play with the kids."  What do these thoughts accomplish?  They destroy any joy and allow Satan a foothold.  I become blind to the help I do receive from others.  I place negative vision goggles on my eyes.

I go around the same mountain each time I take on too many tasks at once.  I got supper cooking, the laundry going, helping my son with homework, dusting the living room and anticipating my husband to get home.  As I run here and there, I begin creating a scene in my mind of how my husband's arrival will take place.  The scene isn't pretty.  He has not got home yet and already I am angry because I think he won't help me.  How fair is that to him? 

Satan loves these times.  My mind becomes a huge playground for him.  I begin to feel trapped, consumed with ugly attitude and stress.  How can I get out of this one?  How can I remove Satan's lies when he has already begun playing in my mind? 

"May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." (Romans 15:13)

"Those who guard their lips preserve their lives,
   but those who speak rashly will come to ruin." (Proverbs 13:3)

"And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever—  the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you."

(John 14:16-17)

So, a fork in the road exists - one way leads to destruction and ruin; while the other leads to harmony and peace.  God sent the Holy Spirit to consume our soul and help in troubling times.  We must trust in Him to activate the power of the Holy Spirit within us.  Once activated, Satan loses and recess is over for him. 

The key to getting out of trials is to ask for help.  Reach up and seek answers from Him.  He created people in our lives to take the burdens off our shoulders.  Allow God to humble your heart and guard your words.  The delivery of words can determine the reaction of the recipient.  If I approach my husband the minute he steps in the door with a demanding attitude to help; the likelihood of receiving help decreases.  If I stay silent and stomp around in anger because no one helps; I only destroy my joy and my negative attitude trickles down to the rest of the family.

BUT, if I reach up and trust that He will get me out of this mess, my words come with humility and kindness.  It amazes me how willing my husband is to help if only I approach without demanding.  Harmony comes in the house, my mind begins to rest and teamwork occurs.  I like being part of a team with God as our coach.  Make use of the team God provides!  When the fork in the road comes upon you - choose Him! 

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for rescuing me when I call for help.  I know Your hand remains open at all times for me to grab hold of and persevere through troubling times.  Help me keep Satan out of my mind and not create a playground for him to come and play.  Keep harmony in my home as we work to serve only You.  Guard my mouth and may any word I speak be Yours.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig  

Marvelous Work of Our Maker

It amazes me how the body works.  I have a few examples to share.  First, our body produces melatonin in our brain to help us sleep.  During the daylight hours, our body produces 10x less melatonin than during nighttime hours.  The light shines through our eyes and signals our brain to slow down on the melatonin delivery.  God created light and darkness.  He knew rest was needed.

"God made two great lights—the greater light to govern the day and the lesser light to govern the night. He also made the stars.  God set them in the vault of the sky to give light on the earth, to govern the day and the night, and to separate light from darkness. And God saw that it was good." (Genesis 1:16-18)

Next, we have the "fight or flight" reaction within our body.  Let's say we watch as a car crushes another human being.  The adrenal rush through our bodies brings enough strength to move the car off the person.  Believe me, it happens!  How is it possible to lift a machine 40x your weight?  Or, you come in contact with a ferocious fury friend while taking a walk.  Your body sends messages to the nervous system to react fast.  You realize it would be in your best interest to get moving before Fido has your leg for supper.  Your legs move faster than ever before, you reach your front door, enter and lock it quickly.  Lives are saved through the adrenaline hormone. 

"For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do."

(Ephesians 2:10) 

My final example includes the glorious process of birth.  Conception, pregnancy and birth encompass many miraculous factors.  One is the release of oxytocin.  Our bodies realize the proper amount required for giving birth.  As the pregnancy moves along, so the levels of oxytocin increase to prepare for delivery.  Once that glorious day comes when God brings forth a new life, your body puts that oxytocin to great use.  The hormone allows for contractions to occur and the body to stretch.  This continues until you are holding a screaming, slimy, beautiful little being.  Then, as we heal our body balances out our hormones. 

"You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body
      and knit me together in my mother’s womb.
 Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex!
      Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it." 

(Psalm 139:13-14)

Some call it science.  I call it the marvelous, amazing work of our Creator.  He did not miss a detail.  He took every fiber of our being and placed it together to work in perfect harmony.  The result - beautiful, handsome, wonderfully made vessels to be used by Him.  We were created in His image.  He loved us so much to bring us here and use us to further His Kingdom.

Our bodies are mere shells for our soul while dwelling among men.  This life is temporary.  These trials only come to strengthen our faith.  God promises eternal life with Him, not by works or good deed, only through faith and trust in Him.  We are temples of the Holy Spirit.  Treat His temple well, keep yourself healthy and turn to Him for healing. 

I look forward to the day I meet my Maker.  I yearn to see Him face to face.  What will I say?  What will I do?  I have no idea.  But I do know His arms will be open to each of us, ready to accept us into Heaven and never experience the pain or sorrow we do here on Earth.  It will all be over, our plan complete.

God, thank you for today.  Thank You for breathing life into this 'ole girl.  I am here to serve only You.  I had it wrong for years and treated Your temple wrongly.  I damaged much of the work You had done while knitting me together.  I know I am forgiven and I thank You for restoring the damage with each faithful step I take.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig

Send the Invitation

I am beginning a new class here locally.  As I entered yesterday morning, I became nervous.  I sat down, got everything out I needed and opened my Scripture cards to feed some Truth into my nerve-racked mind.  The worry dwelling up inside must be turned into prayer.  I read through many and began feeling relief, knowing God will protect me and my confidence lay in Him. 

"So do not fear, for I am with you;
   do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
   I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." (Isaiah 41:10)

"Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you."

(1 Peter 5:7)

Never will I leave you;
   never will I forsake you.”

 So we say with confidence,

   “The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid.
   What can mere mortals do to me?” (Hebrews 13:5-6)

After reading these and more, I gazed out the window.  The sky, blanketed with clouds, opened in just one little spot.  The sun peaked through.  I felt a peace and instantly began reciting the lyrics to a current song by Jeremy Camp. . .

And Your glory shines all around us
Your faithfulness shown for all to see
When we think of all of Your wonders
The beauty of Your plan that's been revealed
We walk in Your light, we walk in it

Shine, bright
Let Your glory fill this land
Lift high, the King of Kings and great I am
Jesus, You are the way

 

Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Life.  Greater is He who is in me than who is in the world.  God provided a physical indication to make known His presence.  I knew I would be okay.  I looked down for not even a minute and glanced back out only to see the sun hid back in the clouds.  Thanks God for speaking so clearly to me.

"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.” (Joshua 1:9)

No matter what the situation, God will be present!  All He asks is to be invited.  Send out an invitation with every event you face.  No need to ask for an RSVP, for He will always show up.  Continue to take the steps He asks and know that you are protected.  He arrives early and stays through it all.  He will never leave, nor forsake you. 

God, thank you for this day.  Thank You for sending Your only Son to die so I may live an abundant life.  I ask You to come, fill my every day with Your presence.  Guide me with Your light.  Show me the path laid for my life.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Turn it Over to Him

My daughter acquired some spots on her extremities about three weeks ago.  We assumed the spots to be poison ivy because we visited my mom and poison ivy exists all around her property.  So, we began to apply Benadryl orally and topically.  Some spots began to dry up while others faded in color, yet still rose from her skin.  I thought the spots were decreasing until the other night I noticed about three new ones.  Being a frustrated mom, I informed my husband of this when he arrived home and expected him to provide a solution.  I wanted something to fix this and NOW. 

I took her to the doctor yesterday only to leave without a definite answer.  More frustration arose.  The doctor believed the spots to be bites from some creepy little creature.  First thought, bed bugs.  My daughter still uses a plastic covered mattress, so I threw that idea out of the door.  Next thought, fleas.  The only animals she sees have been checked and nothing found.  Also, others who are around these animals have nothing on them.  No one in the house appears to have bites on their skin, only my daughter.  What could this be?  Where are the creatures coming from?  How can I fix this?

"For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.  So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal." (2 Corinthians 4:17-18) 

"Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance;  perseverance, character; and character, hope." (Romans 5:3-4) 

So, when my children or husband contract an illness or appear to be less than 100% healthy, I search frantically for a solution.  I am their mother, after all.  I am to know all the answers to bring wellness back to my family.  I do not sit well on speculations of diagnosis.  My mind needs an exact reason when things are not 'normal'.  Once the solution is discovered, I want it fixed instantly.  Patience disappears from my vocabulary.  

Needless to say, I was one frustrated momma yesterday.  Satan begins lying to me and lets me know I am a failure for exposing my daughter to whatever bit her.  I did not clean the house good enough.  I did not call the exterminator in time.  I did not put enough bug spray on her when she went outside to play.  She will have blemishes on her skin from scratching these spots all because I did not protect her.  I failed as a mom and now have no solution.  Only time will heal.  

Meanwhile, my daughter continues with her life.  She plays and laughs.  She does not even complain.  She knows this is temporary.  Trials in life do not last forever.  They grow faith, perseverance, character and hope.  God asks that we focus on Him, the unseen and not concentrate on the struggles in this life.  The glory and peace found in Him prevails over trials of this world. 

My focus must change.  I must surrender this situation to God, allowing Him to heal my daughter and bring to our sight what little creature caused all the bites.  The problem is I have been trying to fix this myself, not seeking Him for advice.  I kept my thoughts on what I could do to help or heal my daughter.  I must humble myself and ask for His help.  Only He knows the solution. 

God, thank you for this day.  Thank You for bringing my attention to my lack of faith.  I am sorry.  I kept trying this one on my own.  I now realize the steps needed to reach healing.  I give this trial to You.  Heal my daughter and bring peace to my heart.  I am not alone as a mother, but only able to accomplish my role with the strength You provide.  Allow me to be Your hands and feet with my children and keep You at the center of our home.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig

Let Me Get That Speck for You

My dad came to my work yesterday to share some wonderful vegetables of his.  I ventured to the vehicle with him to move them over to mine.  We began talking and laughing and sharing moments of our day/week.  I walked away excited about our conversation.

You see, dad and I have experienced difficult times in our past relationship.  He recently moved closer to us.  He and I have come together and work at seeing each other through God's eyes.  Before, we had a hard time extending any grace towards one another because lots of anger existed.  Both of us made wrong decisions and grew further apart with each one.  Now, we have numerous conversations such as the one described in the previous paragraph.  I feel such a peace between us and grateful that God healed that hurt.

"Parents are not to be put to death for their children, nor children put to death for their parents; each will die for their own sin." (Deuteronomy 24:16)

"How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye?  You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye." (Matthew 7:4-5)

To me, the relationship was not what I expected from a dad.  I continued to see all the wrong, none of the right.  Placing blame on another allowed me to justify the negative actions I continued to perform.  All my sins were because of the atmosphere around me, right?  WRONG.  We each are responsible for our own sins.  Yes, life around me appeared tough.  Yes, chaos consumed my days.  But, I chose to escape through sinning.  My dad did not place the treadmill in front of, the bottle in my hand, the poisons to my mouth or tell me not to eat.  These choices were all MINE. 

Until this summer I placed blame in the wrong place.  I could not own up to my sins.  I kept picking out the sawdust in other's eyes and ignored my plank.  While recalling my past, I could see God's hand remained open to me the whole time.  He stood right there.  I chose not to take His hand.  I darted the other way, the easy way.  I escaped and numbed out.  The realization of denying my Creator sank in and I fell at His feet.  Confessing to God and asking forgiveness for rejecting Him was tough.  I needed to rid myself of ME.  My thoughts must be humbled.  The self-pity must turn to self-acceptance. 

I still struggle confessing to my failings in relationships.  It is much easier to see the wrong decisions of another than your own.  We all must strive to see each other through God's eyes, not Satan's eyes.  Extend a hand of grace so you may receive the same.  Come humbly to one another, owning up to your end of the deal.  Release all anger to God.  Pray with/for one another.  Keep Him at the center of every relationship!

God, thank you for this day.  Thank You for continuing to heal my relationships.  Peace follows forgiveness and then You can work better through me.  Continue to open my eyes to the anger deep inside so I may be sanctified through and through.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig

Two More Added

For a few months my dearest friend and family have been coming to church.  Something captured their hearts and Someone kept pulling them back each week.  With two kids, weekdays are busy.  They could easily stay home and sleep in on Sunday.  But they chose not to succumb to any excuses.  They denied Satan's attacks and came to be fed and worship our Father with fellow believers.  Their eyes opened to see purpose in this life! 

God brings us here to further His Kingdom and teach all we meet about His love.  We become parents and take on the task of leading little hearts to the Truth.  God desires all His children to come and spend eternity with Him in Heaven.  How do we attain this goal?  How do we live up to par and receive a ticket to Heaven?  What does it take to be accepted?

BELIEF - FAITH - TRUST - LOVE - HOPE - OBEDIENCE

 "With many other words he warned them; and he pleaded with them, “Save yourselves from this corrupt generation.”  Those who accepted his message were baptized, and about three thousand were added to their number that day." (Acts 2:40-41) 

"If, in fact, Abraham was justified by works, he had something to boast about—but not before God.  What does Scripture say? “Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness.” (Romans 4:2-3)

"For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—  not by works, so that no one can boast.  For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." (Ephesians 2:8-10)

" Israel, put your hope in the LORD,
   for with the LORD is unfailing love
   and with him is full redemption." (Psalm 130:7)

 "The LORD is my strength and my shield;
   my heart trusts in him, and he helps me.
My heart leaps for joy,
   and with my song I praise him." (Psalm 28:7) 

"Observe the commands of the LORD your God, walking in obedience to him and revering him." (Deuteronomy 8:6)

So, my friends were baptized last week and accepted Jesus and their Lord and Savior.  I cannot begin to explain the emotions I felt as I watched them walk up the isle, holding hands yesterday at church.  They went before the church to place membership and tell all of their glorious decision.  My prayers were heard and answered.  God sent the Holy Spirit to consume my friends' hearts and souls.  

The Holy Spirit dwells among us.  We need only to accept the FREE gift of grace from God and allow the Holy Spirit to be activated within us.  We must choose to trust in God, allow Him to be our strength and ever present help in the trials we face each day.  Walking in obedience seems difficult at times due to the constant battle within our minds - flesh or Spirit?  Satan lies to us constantly to deter our steps from following the path laid for us by our Creator.  Place your hope and belief in Him.  Trust that He will fulfill the promises made in our Instruction Book for life.  He will not let you down.  

We need not earn a ticket to Heaven, keep record of our performance to get the highest score or cross our fingers wishing to be the one selected.  God gives grace FREELY.  Not by works or good deed will you get into Heaven.  Accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior, knowing that God sent His only Son to die so we may live abundantly.  Then, all things will be GIVEN to you.  God sits and waits to love you.  He is not keeping tally up in Heaven, yet He is standing with open arms ready to bless you.  Be obedient to His laws and follow His plan.  

God, thank you for another day here.  May my words today be Your Words.  Use me to lead all I meet to You.  Thank You for answering my prayers about my friends.  Keep a protection around their hearts as Satan begins to attack because he knows he lost them.  Keep their eyes focused on You.  Remind me each day of the FREE gift you give of grace.  May I continue to walk in obedience and rid me of any unbelief still lingering in my heart.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig 

He Invited Me

In the past I attended few social gatherings.  The whole process of finding just a tiny bit of confidence to go, coming up with an excuse not to eat all the "scary" food at the gathering, standing in the room receiving punch after punch from Satan and screaming inside for someone to help me escape the bondage was just exhausting.  The punches from Satan included, "You are such a dork."  "No one wants to be your friend."  "You are so unworthy of enjoying yourself, you haven't earned it."  I could never relax or enjoy the company of others because the food would be staring me in the face.  The others could eat what they wanted and have fun, I did not exercise enough that day to justify eating. 

I normally walked away in shreds unless I chose to escape through other vices and continue on with the night.  I could fit in with ingested confidence because it enabled me to relax.  Satan fed me that line way too often.  The miserable cycle continued for years.  How do you attend a gathering worry free?  What steps must come to enjoy the company of others?  When will the pain from socializing stop?

"Know therefore that the LORD your God is God; he is the faithful God, keeping his covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love him and keep his commandments."

(Deuteronomy 7:8-10)

"Keep me free from the trap that is set for me,
   for you are my refuge.
Into your hands I commit my spirit;
   deliver me, LORD, my faithful God." (Psalm 31:4-5)

"Hear me, LORD, and answer me,
   for I am poor and needy.
Guard my life, for I am faithful to you;
   save your servant who trusts in you.
You are my God;  have mercy on me, Lord,
   for I call to you all day long." (Psalm 86:1-3)

Too often we allow Satan to convince us to STAY, when we need to listen closely as God clearly tells us to GO!  God chooses every event you will attend to better His Kingdom.  He will never leave you on your own at a gathering.  He may ask you to show face at your high school reunion (which you would rather sit home and pull your hair out one by one) or appear at the faculty Christmas party.  You may hear GO when reading about your child's classroom party or field trip.  A group from church sets up a fun night of games and movies and He cleared your schedule so nothing could get in the way of your attendance.  He may even ask you to bring others to your home and gather in His name.  

Whatever He asks or presents to you, His promise remains that you will not be alone.  He guards every moment, delivers you from traps set by Satan and loves you all the way through.  He is your confidence.  Don't leave Him at home.  Ask Him to consume the event, clothing it in His Truth.  Pray for your words to be His and your hands and feet to be His.  There is a reason for your presence.  GO and see what wonderful task waits for you.

I went last night to a gathering at my church.  Sure, I knew the ladies putting this together; I am in safe hands at church.  BUT, Satan tried to convince me I served no purpose in going, my worth was not up to par and I should not even try to mingle.  I fought those lies and took God with me.  If anyone would ask, He invited me.  I walked away feeling so loved.  Food was served and it was delicious.  I enjoyed a plate just like the others.  I met a lovely lady who God knew I needed in my life.  I shared laughs and smiles.  It was AWESOME!  Last night's event proves the healing power of God.  God brings peace.  God is AMAZING!

God, thank you for this day.  Thank You for all the lovely ladies I spent the evening with last night.  Keep me safe in Your arms wherever You may lead me.  Thanks for the support and love.  Thanks for the words and actions.  I am a mere vessel, here to serve only You.  Keep my ears open so I clearly hear Go and not Stay.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig  

Rules of the Game

A team consists of a number of persons forming ONE side in a game or contest.  As two people come together in marriage, the two become ONE.  Men live logically, women live emotionally; bringing those characteristics together creates ONE whole human being.  God knew exactly what He was doing when creating man and woman.  He intended marriage to bring true friendship, intimacy, love, care and strength.  He planned for procreation between man and woman.

As the family grows, a team comes to existence.  The game, LIFE, will be one of the hardest contests you will face.  The enemy is sneaky and can blindside one of the members, if the focus should become lost.  Satan loves to destroy the closeness a team holds.  God loves to strengthen the closeness a team holds.  Let God be the coach and listen to every play He calls out.  Come together as a team and help one another.  If you see Satan cornering one of your teammates, run to the rescue.  Satan will move out of the way when two or more gather in His name and carry out His play.

"Two are better than one,
   because they have a good return for their labor:
If either of them falls down,
   one can help the other up.
But pity anyone who falls
   and has no one to help them up." (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)

"Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." (Galatians 6:2)

"for everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith.  Who is it that overcomes the world? Only the one who believes that Jesus is the Son of God." (1 John 5:4-5) 

Avoid keeping score within the team.  Each member plays a role.  None should dominate play time.  When one is weak or fallen, another picks up the slack and does not hold it against the one.  Should you see one of your teammates struggling or falling away from the team, run to the rescue.  Go and speak Truth into their hearts.  Call out each play loudly so the rest of the team can follow what The Coach wants at that specific time in the game. 

The same rules apply when coming together as a team of believers.  God is still the coach.  We still must be there for one another and speak His Truth to overcome the enemy.   

Keep focused on The Coach and believe He will carry out the plans to victory.  He already won the game and knows the exactly how to get there.  Come together as a team and keep the defense away.

God, thank you for another day to carry out Your plays.  Keep speaking to me and showing me the moves I must take.  Keep my family close and focused on You.  Thank You for placing me as part of team Craig.  May I also play the role You choose as a member of team Believers.  Show me the way.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig   

Don't Hesitate

When others celebrate a birthday, graduation, marriage, a new career or a new baby the right thing to do is send a card, maybe a gift.  We want to express our joy for them and bring an even bigger smile to their already blessed event.  Receiving a gift/card is an overall standard for society.  Also, our presence is expected at any party resulting from the above experiences.  We praise God for the achievements and blessings.

What about when someone loses a job, a person or a home?  What if someone enters a dark time in life, consumes each day in bondage, fell away from the path God laid for their lives or faces a tough decision?  What happens when you meet another who seems lost, knows nothing about the freedom found through Jesus or holds anger towards God for events in their life?  Do you send a card?  Do you make yourself present when opportunities present themselves?  Do you pray for or with this individual?

"And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone." (1 Thessalonians 5:14)

"See to it, brothers and sisters, that none of you has a sinful, unbelieving heart that turns away from the living God.  But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called “Today,” so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness.  We have come to share in Christ, if indeed we hold our original conviction firmly to the very end." (Hebrews 3:12-14)

"He died for us so that, whether we are awake or asleep, we may live together with him.  Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."

(1 Thessalonians 5:10-11)

When God pulls on your heart to call, meet or write another one of His children, don't hesitate.  He wants to use you to lead another to Him.  He wants to use any hurt you experience and comfort another from the same comfort you received from Him.  Remember the hand that extended grace when you were lost.  Remember the person that said "Yes" to God and came to your rescue. 

God's Word is made perfect and He uses each of His words at just the perfect time.  Be the vessel He needs to teach and lead others to Him.  Approach another in love, comfort and peace.  Avoid condemning another or scolding.  Send that letter, call your friend or seek to find the ones who are lost.  Lead them to the Truth, so they may find peace.  Don't give up or count any as lost.  Sometimes it takes one seed at a time and God waits to water until the person is truly ready.

Bring a smile to another's face at all times.  Whether they are celebrating a joyous time or encountering a difficult season in life; build up all you meet.  In this way, we further the Kingdom of God.  Work for Him!  Pray before, during and after so God is right in the middle of it all and leading your every move.

God, thank you for another day.  Help me be your hands and feet.  I am here God, use me!  Open my eyes to the work I can do for You.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig

A Softer Heart

Today I write about a very personal battle.  My track record in relationships is not so good.  I fear rejection and love approval.  In order to avoid rejection, I do not allow a relationship to go too deep.  I am excellent at superficial friendships.  In order to receive approval, I lose myself and accommodate the other party constantly.  Eventually, I become exhausted and resentful; all because of my own insecurities and actions.  Neither instance results in healthy relationships. 

Not that an excuse exempts me from discipline in sinning, but as I grew up I internalized every criticism I heard.  When all my friendships were lost due to moving in high school, my heart became hard and I allowed no one in.  When divorce struck our household, I felt rejection and I refused to feel emotions again.  I numbed out.  I lost the ability to have a true relationship with people.  I did not even see the efforts others put in to try and be my friend or love and care for me.  I felt unworthy!  The rejection in life led me to believe the 'real me' was not good enough and I created all kinds of masks.  I wore a mask to high school, sports activities, college, dates and even in my own house.  No where could I 'let my hair' down. 

"To him who loves us and has freed us from our sins by his blood," (Revelation 1:5)

"Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ." (Galatians 1:10)

"for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,  and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." (Romans 3:23-24)

Then one day I understood.  I did not discover some big secret.  I did not have a crowd of friends surrounding me.  I did not have the approval of every person I knew.  BUT, I had Him.  Jesus died on the cross to wash away every sin.  He shed His blood so I may enjoy this life.  The chains broke one by one as I began to finally get it. 

The more faith grew in my heart, the softer it became.  No approval need come from people, only Him.  If my feet step in His direction and I place my worth in Him, then I may rest assured that I am obeying Him.  The more I serve Him, the less I try to please others.  There will be rejection, disapproval and anger in this life, but He accepts me and forgives my every sin.  He knew exactly what He was getting when breathing life into my body.  Amazingly enough, He still went through with His decision to bring me here to Earth.  For this I am so thankful. 

Now, I am not in the clear of these struggles.  I am learning how to be in relationships.  I know the Truth, but Satan stands right there waiting to get his foot in when weakness strikes.  I find myself waiting for a relationship to crash because of rejection.  As a confrontation arises, I think, "Okay, this is the one that will cause that person to leave me.  I have revealed too much of myself and they despise the 'real me'."  I still have moments where I feel so unworthy of touch or conversation.  I feel damaged beyond repair.  LIES LIES LIES!  Satan loves to lie to me.  Now, I know the answer and I know where to run for help.  Not Anorexia, drugs, alcohol, approval, isolation or exercise.  NOPE, none of these will do, only the Truth.  The Truth will set me free!

Yes, my past is ugly.  Yes, I have sinned and continue to slip at times.  No, I am not perfect.  No, I don't have it all together.  But, guess what?  None of us do!  We all fall short of the glory of God.  BUT, He will never leave you nor forsake you.  He will hold you in His hands.  Accept this and kill the lies from Satan.

God, thank you for another day.  Keep my mouth speaking Your Truth, my heart softened and my eyes open to You.  Thank You for bringing me out of darkness and breaking my chains of bondage.  I keep my shield of faith up to deflect the lies of Satan and my sword ready with Your Truth should a lie slip past my shield.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Believe in His Promises

My son began his first day of second grade.  He rose out of bed with grumbling and complaining.  He rather still be looking at the back of his eyelids than upright and getting dressed.  Once dressed, breakfast was served (pop-tarts fresh out of the wrapper).  The conversation began a little as he became more alert.  I reminded my child where all his necessities were located (lunch money and note to be picked up after school).  His face remained blank.  I got no excitement from him, just the same reaction I feel myself when I get ready for work.

I asked to help him to the classroom with all his cargo (school supplies increase in amount each year).  He stood firm with a NO!  The confidence of this boy was amazing.  He walks with his head high and no worries.  As I drove to school, again I asked to help.  Confirmation came loud and clear from the back seat that all would be fine without me. 

Before leaving the van, I told him I wanted to check his face for food and whatnot.  An instant response shot back, "What does it matter?"  I became speechless.  This little boy could care less what criticisms could come because of appearance.  He walks in confidence knowing who he is and he likes himself.  Oh, the lessons we could learn from this seven year old boy. . .

"Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God." (Romans 15:7)

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

(Philippians 4:6-7)

“But blessed is the one who trusts in the LORD,
   whose confidence is in him." (Jeremiah 17:7)

So we say with confidence,

   “The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid.
   What can mere mortals do to me?” (Hebrews 13:6) 

. . .My son understands that his day is clothed in prayer.  We pray before he ventures on to school.  I confirm that I will pray throughout the day for him.  God consumes my son with His confidence. 

God helps all of us through each day.  He walks beside us and protects our hearts from the criticisms in this world.  We must trust God and believe in His promises.  He will never leave us nor forsake us.  He accepts us and loves us just as He created us.  Don't allow mortal man to steal the joy, peace and confidence we receive through Him.  The tongue is a dangerous weapon.  Be on guard and put up your shield of faith, raise your sword of the Spirit and combat every criticism with His Truth. 

Turn every worry into prayer so the peace of God can consume your mind, body and soul.  Extend the same hand of grace to others that you wish to receive.  Be less visual.  Take the time to care and seek the heart of others.  See through His eyes.

My son could care less if a chocolate milk mustache appears on his lip, pop-tart filling sits in the corner of his mouth or his hair raises in the back like Alfalfa because he knows God accepts him.  He likes himself and feels the prayers lifted up for him.  I am not saying he will feel this way always.  There will be times when appearance is everything in his world.  But, the foundation laid for him allows him to know the acceptance received from God.  Though he may venture away some, he will return to the Truth he knows. 

I struggle to remember the accepting hand God extends.  I pray continually to avoid seeking approval from man.  My thoughts must be shifted often to remember I am a servant of my Creator and I only want His approval.  He knit me together just as He wanted and sees me beautiful.  He makes no junk!

God, thank you for this day.  Thank You for using my son as a vessel to reach me.  I learn so much from him.  Continue using him to teach this family and all he meets.  He has it right.  Consume my every thought and make it obedient to You.  When I look in the mirror, help me to see the same reflection You see.  Remind me that my worth is found only in You and through the blood of Jesus, I am forgiven and accepted.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig


 

Misery Loves Company

Satan steps up his game when we walk closer to God, as we serve Him more and with each time we tune our ears to hear His Truths.  His schemes increase in persuasion, his words increase in seduction and his blows stoop lower.  Satan does not care if others get hurt and loves to cause misery.  As we all know misery loves company.  He knows he is defeated and wants us to be his company in misery.  He wants to use us to entice others to fall. 

If Satan can get the leader of a family, church, Bible study or ministry to fall and become miserable, the whole operation will follow.  The result: God's work ceases. 

“I am coming to you now, but I say these things while I am still in the world, so that they may have the full measure of my joy within them.  I have given them your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world.  My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one.  They are not of the world, even as I am not of it.  Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth.  As you sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world."

(John 17:13-18) 

Jesus came in this world and knows the difficulties of life.  He told of the protection we shall have once He rose.  The Holy Spirit followed Jesus and works within us to provide power and strength to carry out the good deeds for God. 

God sent us in this world to be His hands and feet.  We must trust in Him to carry out this work He began with breathing life into us.  He promises never to leave nor forsake any of His Children.  As we surrender, we will feel discomfort.  Yes, we will be joyous and live in righteousness, BUT our flesh will never be comfortable.  We find comfort in Him and peace flows inside us.  Then, we walk in concordance to His Will. 

Be aware, Satan prowls around finding any foothold available.  Give your lives to God so He may sanctify you through and through with His Truth.  Be ready, put on the armor provided by Him daily and know the battle is His, not yours.  Step faithfully and trust God will see you through.   He will never allow more than you can handle with Him by your side. 

Check out this new song by Matthew West.  I love it!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5FYDcvY2lfI

Don't allow Satan to amplify our weakness to tear us down.  Allow God to use our weakness to build up His Kingdom.  His power shines through our weakness that we may not boast of self but reveal the power of God (see 2 Corinthians 12:9).

God, thank you for this day.  Thank You for protecting my heart and providing Truth to lead my life.  Continue to use me.  Take every weakness I posses and use it to reach others.  Consume me and rid me of myself so I completely surrender all to You.  Take my every move and direct it to You.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Be Consistent in Character

My kids will use the argument, "She/he did it first," or, "She/he never gets in trouble."  At times I slip and spout out a word, in a rage of emotion, which I do not allow in the vocabulary of my kids.  They quickly say, "You said a bad word."  I retort by explaining I slipped and I am 28 years old.  Does my age really matter on my behavior?  Does recompense really solve a problem or argument?

It feels unfair when a co-worker receives no reprimand following misbehavior, while you follow every rule.  Some thoughts may be, "Well, if she does not follow procedures, then I won't either," "Why should I bend over backward and do what is right when defiance feels easier?"  I hear customers argue with me and other employees about always being allowed to complete their transaction even though contrary to policy.  Should we bend rules for certain customers?  Should we neglect procedures because our fellow employee did so and gets away without reprimand?

"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will." (Romans 12:2)

"So be careful to do what the LORD your God has commanded you; do not turn aside to the right or to the left.  Walk in obedience to all that the LORD your God has commanded you, so that you may live and prosper and prolong your days in the land that you will possess." (Deuteronomy 5:32-33)

"For just as through the disobedience of the one man the many were made sinners, so also through the obedience of the one man the many will be made righteous." (Romans 5:19)

Doing what is right; walking in obedience presents difficulty when living in this world.  A battle occurs each time we choose to walk in love and concordance to His will.  We must not echo the rebellion in others, succumb to peer pressure or believe you 'earned' the right to bend the rules.  Choose Him.  You may appear in the minority, BUT the blessings received far outweigh the temporary acceptance from your peers.

Set good examples and slowly you will see others follow.  Be consistent in your character, whether at church, school, work, home or running errands.  If we conform to the nature of our environment, then any teaching coming from our mouth shows hypocrisy.  Avoid getting even.  Follow the Golden Rule: Treat others the way you want to be treated.  Trust me, I have seen it work many times that the recipient of kindness comes around and treats you the same.  Be His hands and feet.

Satan loves to entice the flesh to follow him.  He knows exactly where to apply pressure in hopes to win your thoughts.  Our mind constantly battles between flesh desires and His will.  Leave your flesh at home.  Keep the enemy's lies at a distance by continually studying His Truths.  The Bible is the only solution to problems and the only guide for our decisions.  

Just because I am 28 does not give me permission to slip and use negative language.  Just because my son hit my daughter does not open the door for her to hit him back.  Just because a co-worker is absent at a mandatory meeting does not give permission for me to do the same the next meeting.  Just because a customer slipped through and made a transaction last visit against policy does not mean I will do the same this visit.  

Choose His Law to follow.  Each rule and procedure develops for a reason.  Set the example and lead others to The Truth!

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for the chance to walk in obedience and live according to Your Will.  Keep my feet on the path set before me.  I leave my flesh at home and move in concordance to the Holy Spirit working within me.  Should I stumble, please forgive me and set me back straight.  May I go and fix any wrong by humbling myself to another.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig  

Free to a Thirsty Spirit

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The word FREE jumps off any page in today's society.  Not many items can be found free without some string attached.  Often times the fine print, typed too small for the naked eye to see, describes the catch. 

People become excited when they visit fairs or carnivals and businesses set up tables giving away small items to advertise their service or product.  The free gifts often serve as a ploy to get you to the table and then sell you something.  I have worked in customer service way too long and realize that free items serve as bait to open your eyes to something the company sees worth purchasing.

Nothing in this life is completely free. . .

 "The Spirit and the bride say, “Come!” And let the one who hears say, “Come!” Let the one who is thirsty come; and let the one who wishes take the free gift of the water of life." (Revelation 22:17)

"For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast." (Ephesians 2:8-9) 

. . .Or is there?

At the moment of creation, you have a gift waiting for you to open.  Not a birthday present, Christmas present or any of that sorts.  A gift not of monetary value, BUT, one of eternal value.  God FREELY provides grace.  You only need to accept Him.  No work you can perform or money you present will buy this gift.  It is totally free, no strings attached.  The Bible contains no fine print.  All who come to Him will receive His Grace and enjoy the benefits.  God does not place a limit on recipients to the first 10,000 or so.  NO, EACH of His Children inherits His Grace.  Accept it!  You will not be disappointed in the results.  God guarantees satisfaction! 

You need not wait for a special event to get His Gift.  He does not set up a table for all to come.  You can accept it at any time.  It is hard for our fleshly minds to grasp the fact of something free.  We question what will be asked of us as we welcome this gift into our lives.  Guess what?  He asks only for you to trust Him.  He will take care of all your needs, comfort you during trials, bring laughter to your life, ease all anxieties and ask only of one thing; that you tell others.  Take His Word and spread the good news.  Equip yourselves by studying Scripture and be ready to give all the details.

"All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work."

(2 Timothy 3:16-17)

God, thank you for this day.  Thank You for Grace.  I know I am forgiven, accepted and loved by You.  Use me as a vessel to spread this good news to all I meet.  I am ready to serve You.  Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig

"I'm With Him!"

The time is 8:30.  The kids should be sleeping by now, but I just dried off my drenched three-year old.  We traveled to her room only to find the drawer empty for her night diapers.  I tried to think of any hidden spots an extra may be - diaper bag, van, car or playroom (she likes to put these on her baby dolls).  None could be found.  So, looks like I must change out of my pajamas and head to the store (I was so close to just leaving my pjs on, but decided against it). 

I became frustrated.  Why did I not check the drawer?  Why had my daughter not told me she used the last one?  Why do I have to go to the store?  Nothing every goes as planned!  Quickly, I threw out all the "what about me" thoughts and changed my clothes.  As I headed out of the driveway, I looked up and out in front of my van.  WOW!  The sky illuminated the most beautiful shade of orange.  It spanned the whole view as I drove forward.  The artwork God creates in the sky never ceases to amaze me.  I could sit and watch the sunset every night. 

Just when I thought He could not paint a prettier picture, I exited the store and now the sky radiated bright pink.  The clouds sat perfectly to add character to the pink lines.  AMAZING!  I immediately thanked God for such a gorgeous view.  It brings such peace to see the Creations of God.  He never fails and everything He creates shines beautifully.  Just as a sunset displays beauty for all to enjoy, so does each person.  He created each beautifully in His eyes.  See through His eyes your beauty and all His Creation.

"And God said, “Let there be lights in the vault of the sky to separate the day from the night, and let them serve as signs to mark sacred times, and days and years, and let them be lights in the vault of the sky to give light on the earth.” And it was so. (Genesis 1:14-15) 

"Let us acknowledge the LORD;
   let us press on to acknowledge him.
As surely as the sun rises,
   he will appear;
he will come to us like the winter rains,
   like the spring rains that water the earth.”  (Hosea 6:3)

So, if I would have continued my frustration and allowed Satan to mess with my emotions, I would have missed the beauty surrounding my drive.  Sometimes in life we become so focused on doing this or doing that; we miss out on some joyous times.  If an event does not go as planned, our flesh becomes very uncomfortable. 

We have two choices: choose Him or choose flesh.  

Choosing Him brings joy, peace and a better way of doing things.  Choosing flesh leads only to destruction.  I am not sure about you, but the latter sounds unpleasant.  One of my dearest friends once brought the point up that when Satan begins lying and stealing our joy, simply say, "I'm with Him!"  Those three words will kill and destroy the lies pouring inside.  Acknowledge that God leads your life and with every moment proclaim, "I'm with Him!"  Let His Truth consume your mind.

He appears everywhere, just look for Him.  Keep your eyes open to His Creations.  He planned each detail for our enjoyment.  Immediately thank Him for all the beauty provided.  He is AMAZING!

God, thank you for this day.  Thank You for providing such peace, joy and beauty for me to see.  Thanks for the opportunity the other night to enjoy Your painted sky.  Keep my eyes focused on You and that every time something does not go my way I may remember, You are right there to carry me through.  Keep Satan's lies away.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig

 

Gather in Prayer

Each night our children grab a book and we head to mommy and daddy's bed to read together.  My son brings a devotion for boys and his Bible.  My daughter usually picks the same children's book each night.  She can read each page now from memorization.  I simply say the first word of the page and she finishes.  Makes my job pretty easy! 

Just recently we began a third reading from a small book my mom purchased at a yard sale.  The author intended the book to be used by a family before bedtime.  Each little lesson uses questions and/or a game to teach.  At the end, a prayer exists for the parent to read aloud.  Blank lines within the prayer allow the parent to personalize it with children's names.  The children have the chance to hear their parent praying specifically for them.  This whole process requires the parent to give full attention to the child (you need to remember their answers to questions for the prayer as well), provides the children a chance to talk about themselves (which they LOVE to do at this age) and allows them to feel loved because someone prays about them. 

We can get pretty goofy with these lessons, so laughter usually occurs.  Last night, one question asked what they want to be when they grow up.  My daughter answered, "I want to dance" (yes, I will be keeping a close eye on this girl).  Well, she got up and showed me how good she could dance.  Then, my son wanted to top her, so he got up and danced.  It was hilarious! 

We finish our night with a prayer circle.  Not your ordinary circle; just one person prays.  I can see now why families that pray together stay together.  I look forward to this time with them every day.  It is comforting knowing someone is praying for you and also exciting to pray for others TOGETHER!  The bond grows deeper each time we gather together.

"They all joined together constantly in prayer, along with the women and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with his brothers." (Acts 1:14)

"And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven.  Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective." (James 5:15-16)

Still as an adult, I feel comfort hearing others pray for me and knowing they do so when I ask.  I have a group of ladies who pass no judgment when I ask for prayer due to a current struggle or weakness.  They listen, understand and then lift me in prayer.  Our bond grows deeper with each prayer circle we complete (we each take a turn and pray).  We never leave each other without completing a prayer circle.  I look forward to hearing what I can pray for them about and asking for prayer from them as well. 

Praying together is powerful.  The Bible lets us know where two or three gather, Jesus will be there (see Matthew 18:19-20).  As we hold hands, close our eyes and lift up any pain, sadness or concerns of others, our Father's ears perk up.  He takes in each request and delegates peace, healing, forgiveness and whatever other answers may be needed.  Constantly, we should gather in prayer.  No tragic event needs to be present, no death or sickness needs to occur; just lift others in prayer at all times.  The simplest prayers are heard and deemed important to our Creator.

Find a prayer group or partner.  It is amazing the blessings and peace you will receive as you pray for another and prayers are lifted for you as well.  Pray with your family.  The bond weakens Satan's attacks and attempts to steal the joy within a household.  Keep Satan away and God close by conversing with God each time you gather (i.e, meals, bedtime, traveling in the car, etc.). 

Pray Together - Stay Together

God, thank you for this day.  Thank You for sending me great prayer partners.  I lift each one of them up to You, that they be blessed and find peace in any trial.  May each one of them stay focused on You and know that I am here to pray with them at any time.  Prayer keeps my family and I focused on You.  We hear You answer and see what steps must be taken to keep Satan's lies out.  Keep us bonded in this way always.  I love You.

Keep praying (TOGETHER) harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig

Spread Good Seed

My thumb shines a dark black.  I normally kill off any flower received as a gift.  My mother-in-law purchased a Hen-and-Chick plant which requires little to no water.  I have kept that plant surviving for a while now :) 

My radiant black thumb may be reason why daylilies are my favorite flower.  These vigorous perennials appear rugged, adaptable and may endure in a garden for many years with little or no care.  Daylilies adapt to a wide range of soil and light conditions. They establish quickly, grow vigorously, and survive winters with little or no injury.  The flowers grow best in direct sun and tolerate very little shade.

When my family and I first moved into our current home, a patch of daylilies bloomed just outside the window of our kitchen.  I enjoyed seeing them and loved the low maintenance (I do good to take care of my two children!).  The flowers arrived year after year.  We even mowed them down when the season was over one year and yet they still bloom beautifully. 

On top of the hill we call our yard, thicket and weeds overtook the area.  As I mowed the yard yesterday, 4-5 beautiful pink daylilies caught my eye.  Among the most hideous mess, the flowers bloomed proudly and offered beauty for me to enjoy.  The flowers did not conform to its environment; however, chose to bloom and create some color.

“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden.  Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house.  In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven." (Matthew 5:14-16) 

"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will." (Romans 12:2)

The chaos of this world, the crime all around and the mean spirits create a hideous mess surrounding us.  We as Christians must not allow the thicket and weeds to kill our beautiful spirit.  When the world attempts to 'mow' us down, stay rooted in His Truth.  Shine brightly for Him for all to see.  Don't allow Satan's lies to seep into the soil God provided.  These lies grow weeds and suffocate your spirit. 

Go in this world and teach by example.  Accept wherever God places you to spread His Truth.  Do not avoid all environments containing bad soil.  Go, take the steps He asks of you and spread your good soil.  Allow others to take a seed from you and then wait for God to water it.  Soon the good soil will overpower the bad and beautiful flowers will fill the place.  Satan will be vanquished!

Daylilies require little or no care.  Here is a difference in my analogy.  We require MUCH care.  We must read His Truth daily and allow Him to feed our spirit.  Without His Truth, there is great potential for death of our spirit.  This will lead to a willingness to become OF this world.  We must build strong roots.  God wants to establish strong vessels before asking them to be His hands and feet.  The daylilies in my backyard have strong roots hugging the soil deep down in the ground; therefore, they have the strength to continue to grow amongst thicket.  Even when we tried to destroy them by mowing them down, they refused to die off. 

Refuse to be destroyed by Satan's lies and the patterns of this world.  Go and be IN this world, doing as Jesus would do.  Be still and be led by God.  He knows when the time is right for seeds to be planted.  He will not take you anywhere He has not already gone ahead to check the surrounding.  He will care for you and never leave your side.

God, thank you for this day.  Thank You for loving me.  I am amazed by Your great works.  I appreciate the colors of the land which You provide for enjoyment.  Thank You for my daylilies to serve as a reminder that good seed can be spread anywhere.  I pray for You to use me as a vessel and speak clearly to me when I should plant a seed for You to water.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.

Sheree Craig