Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Erase the Label

Did you ever experience one of those days when your feet should never have hit the floor?  You know, those days when you fall on the list of bad parent, disappointing spouse, ineffective employee or negligent friend.  The day drags on and weighs heavily on our shoulders.  Failure, defeat and gloom cloud your thoughts.  You could be totally fine erasing the day from the calendar. 

We all have them.  None of us will reach perfection, so these days are guaranteed to occur.  Our reaction makes all the difference.  Becoming a Christian does not place you in a bubble of protection from trials of this world.  Accepting Jesus as Lord and Savior over your life does not clothe you in perfection.  It does even better.  Jesus offers everlasting peace, strength, courage and wisdom to face any trial.  His grace covers you.  Leaning on Him at all times guarantees victory.  He will bring beauty from days full of trouble and error.  This world may label you negatively based on a few bad moments or mistakes; but, God erases and works all things out for His good.  Without Him active in your life, those bad moments sink into your soul and bind your thoughts.  You feel defined by your mistakes. 

Take heart, God brings new life!  Give up the old you, restore the current you and come alive through Him.  Accept Him and see through His eyes the beauty created within you.  You are being renewed each and every day.  Some days bring more restoration than others.  Embrace each one the same, standing firm on His Truth.  Trust and believe in Him to provide strength always.

So, the next time your feet touch the floor, remind yourself that God is with you wherever you go and whatever the day brings, He will help.  Pray this Scripture. . .

"Create in me a pure heart, O God,
   and renew a steadfast spirit within me.
Do not cast me from your presence
   or take your Holy Spirit from me.
Restore to me the joy of your salvation
   and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me." (Psalm 51:10-12)

Bad moments do not define you or place a negative label on your name.  You may fail to sign a child's field trip permission slip, send them to school in mismatched socks (which is actually the cool thing currently) or pack an unhealthy lunch; but, you are not a bad parent.  You may forget an anniversary, not make the bed or burn supper; but, you are not a disappointing spouse.  You may arrive a few minutes late to work or forget to complete a required class; but, you are not an ineffective employee.  You may cut a friend short in conversation, stand them up or fail to inquire about a tough situation; but, you are not a negligent friend.

We must reach for God.  Take time away from the chaos of our day, allow Him to pick us back up and begin to shine again.  Keep no track of mistakes.  Give them to God and allow Him to teach you and then erase them.  He keeps no record, neither should you.  Hang in there, each morning is a new day and His mercies shine brightly every day!

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for helping me learn from my mistakes and rid myself of the defining labels of failure.  Keep my heart pure, renew me each day and send Your Holy Spirit to guide and direct my path.  Thank You for new mercies every morning.  Pick me up should I fall.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig    

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Serve God, Appreciate Blessings

If you have not experienced Dove chocolates, stop reading now, get in your vehicle and go purchase a bag.  These bite size chocolates excite your taste buds.  They melt perfectly in your mouth and the flavor exceeds any other kind.  Not only does the taste leave you satisfied, the company throws in an uplifting message underneath the wrapper.  The tactic displays brilliancy on the maker's part.  It keeps you coming back for more inspiration; therefore, you purchase more of the product.

I read each wrapper while ingesting the delicious flavor.  I don't keep every one, but some are worth saving to reread at a later date.  I have two particular messages I would like to share. 

First one, "Remind yourself that it's okay not to be perfect."  SO TRUE!

We love to do things correctly and successfully accomplish the task at hand.  In our careers, we receive many responsibilities and strive to complete before the deadline and with precision.  In marriage, we aim to please our partner and bring a smile to their face.  In parenting, we work hard to win the hearts of our children and discipline just right, all while protecting their spirits.  In our relationships, we seek approval and acceptance.  We do so by keeping up with fashion, trying so hard to say the 'right' thing, doing as others do to remain 'cool' and go places we wish we had not.

"Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ." (Galatians 1:10) 

The pressures of perfectionism weigh heavily on our shoulders.  Stress skyrockets when we feel 110% is required and nothing less will be accepted.  As an extremist, I fall into this category way too often.  My thoughts continually run around the same old mountain of striving for flawless character.  I lose myself by trying to appear flawless in all my relationships and end up exhausted.  This mindset opens the door for Satan to come right in and have a party.

Remember that faith as small as a mustard seed can move mountains.  God will take the load away.  He desires us to come to Him and will use us to further His Kingdom.  Release the anxieties of pleasing man and become a servant to Christ.  It is then you will find that people love you even more.  They love the real you.  Find yourself by giving yourself to God.  He created you and will reveal all the wonderful talents and gifts given to you.  See through His eyes!  He does not expect perfection, only a striving heart.  Quit trying so hard to receive the approval of man and set the example to love others just as God created them.  Release the pressures of perfectionism in all areas of your life.  Give it to God.

The other one, "Savor small romantic moments."  WELL, YEA!

Look at your glass; is it half full or half empty?  Focus on all the wonderful blessings, not the trials before you.  In every relationship, trial brings negative thoughts and sad spirits.  Stand firm on Truth to kill any lies from Satan.  Take delight in the time spent with loved ones.  Appreciate the moments that bring a smile to your face.  Cherish the positive steps taken in life. 

"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ. For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight." (Ephesians 1:3-4)

In our life, the trials will pile high and weigh heavily on our hearts, IF we allow it.  The burdens will bury our joy and destroy God's plan, IF we focus on them.  IF we fail to look past all the wrong people around us do, then the relationship will die.  In marriages, parenting, friendships or careers; one must treasure the good times and erase the bad.  God intends for us to enjoy each other.  He never desired us to be alone.  He created each of us to complement the other.  Keep your eyes on those 'romantic' moments in life!

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for all the blessings in my life.  May I count my blessings, not my burdens.  Keep my eyes on Your Glory and may I do everything for You.  I am not here to please man, but to be Your servant.  Use me to further Your Kingdom.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Monday, February 27, 2012

Turning Back Destroys His Plan

We enjoyed the beautiful weather as we walked together one evening.  The kids talked, laughed and took in the scenery.  I put one foot in front of the other as best I could, continuing forward.  My husband ran ahead to get a more intense workout than a casual walk.  We kept going until he came back to us.  As we turned around, the road seemed much longer and the van so far away.  I had not realized the distance traveled because I focused on the children, nature and fresh air. 

My legs screamed to be done and give up.  I began focusing on simply surviving the duration of the walk leading to our van.  My children continued to laugh, talk and take in scenery.  I, on the other hand shifted that enjoyment to thinking, "Will I ever make it back?" and, "If I do, I am going to collapse in the van seat." 

As I began the walk, I kept my focus on the purpose of our walk and my perseverance increased.  I felt encouraged, revived, renewed and strengthened.  With each step, I engaged in the moment.  I shared in conversation with my children, learned with them and appreciated the life given to me.  Then, turning back shifted my demeanor to negative, discouraged, weakened and finished.  Why such a drastic transformation?

I changed my focus; I turned back and forgot all about the goodness that lay before me.

"Give careful thought to the paths for your feet
   and be steadfast in all your ways.
Do not turn to the right or the left;
   keep your foot from evil." (Proverbs 4:26-27)

Okay, so turning back is required when walking for exercise.  We would never reach our house if we continued forward.  BUT, in our spiritual walk, we must not turn back.  Turning back prevents us from reaching our Eternal Home with God.  Reverting to old ways, habits and attitudes keep us from completing the plan laid out for our lives.  Rid yourself of the past, never to look back again. 

Keep focus on the path ahead and assure your feet step as God intends.  Look up for guidance.  Take in the scenery, learning all you can from the places He leads.  Talk, laugh and enjoy our great Creator.  Engage in every opportunity presented to bring others closer to Him.  Stay on the path leading to Heaven.  Appreciate the life given to you.  He loved us so much that He gave His only Son to die so we may carry out an abundant life here on Earth.  Take a moment and meditate on that sentence. . .

God breathed life into each of us with a purpose.  You are important and here for a reason.  Put off your old self, turn forward and follow Him.

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for the chance to live this day in a way pleasing to You.  Keep my eyes forward, my thoughts positive and body moving.  May I never become idle, negative or revert to old ways of living.  Thank You for Truth which nourishes my soul.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Sunday, February 26, 2012

Ointment for Wounds

Anyone who spends a while around me will gather that I am stubborn, an extremist and I avoid tough situations.  I am quickly frustrated, my mind overwhelms easily and the people around me suffer due to my snippy comments.  I do all this before I even realize what is going on.

When sensitive topics come my way or I am challenged in my way of living, I run.  I do not want to talk about what spurs sadness or where I need improvement.  If I try to face these two particular instances in life, my character turns ugly.  A stubborn mindset comes in and overtakes the acceptance of constructive criticism.  I feel overwhelmed with the idea of yet another thing I need to change or another wound which needs healing.  Frustrated, angry and sad; I give up! 

Is this the right way to approach life?  NO.

Each time this occurs, I reach up.  He picks me up in His arms and takes away the frustration, calms my anger and catches my tears.  What an awesome friend I found in God.  He understands exactly where all this comes from.  He has, is and will be omnipresent.  But, He also knows how the flesh can take over and try to override the goodness He plans for my days.  Our flesh reaches for Band-Aids to try and cover our open wounds.  The Band-Aid does not heal; it only temporarily stops the emotions and pain.  Each trial faced in life rips off the Band-Aid and pours salt into the wound.  Again, the flesh searches for a temporary fix to stop the flowing emotions.  The process continues with no true healing in sight.

I rode this rollercoaster too many times in my days and know the outcome; yet, I still find Band-Aids over open wounds.  Trials arise, causing exposure to my wounds; but, I quickly find a way to stop the process.  Well, no more of this.  The pain hinders my walk with God.  I have given the ugliest pieces of my past to God.  Why not give these few minor things up for Him to heal?  Why is this so hard?
Pride, control and pain.  

Humility brings weakness to the flesh.  Loss of control brings chaos in life.  Pain brings sadness to our thoughts.  The hardness in my heart despises weakness, chaos or sadness.  So, flesh and spirit battle everyday.  Thank God for already defeating my enemy.  Every day I must give God control, allowing Him to take all this away.  He will fight the battle for me.  I am assured of victory when He is in control.

"Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy.  Blessed is the one who always trembles before God, but whoever hardens their heart falls into trouble." (Proverbs 28:13-14) 
 
Maybe you feel as though some things from the past surface during trials.  Maybe Band-Aids still exists.  Don't give up or run like I have.  Learn from my mistakes and go directly to God with every piece of your days.  Give Him your ENTIRE past and receive a healing that withstands all.  His Word becomes an ointment to our wounds that heals it completely.  He leaves no pain, just a scar.  The next trial comes and we have His Truths embedded in our thoughts, ready to provide strength to persevere.  You will see that frustration vanishes, anger slows down and sadness is comforted.  He is the one true Healer.  Trust Him.  Allow Him to soften your heart. 

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for revealing some hidden wounds.  Take off my Band-Aid and begin applying Your Word to heal my wounds.  Give me Truth to withstand trials.  Humble my spirit, loosen my control and wipe my tears.  Satan loves when I am stubborn and overwhelmed.  Help me overcome these and carry me through the trials I face.  I give all of me to You.  Use me in every situation and teach me to better follow Your Word.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig   

Saturday, February 25, 2012

The Hearts of our Children

The role of a parent demands much from a person.  After working to provide for the family, keeping up on chores, taking care of physical needs and trying to get some sleep; you still need to lead them spiritually and comfort them.  The outside influences work against everything you tried so hard to establish in the first five years.  Your busy schedule steals all your energy and patience.  Emotions run ragged after being out in the world and working to not conform to its patterns.  Life is tough.  The older we become, the more responsibilities and pressures we encounter.  Trying to deal with our own leaves us empty for our children.  What can a parent do?  How can we avoid neglecting our children spiritually and emotionally?

Well, it is not easy.  I have no miracle cure or magic potion to protect your children.  We cannot place them in a bubble and send them out each day only to come home innocent, pure, untouched and uninfluenced.  This world becomes worse with each given day.  The news stories on TV, books/magazines on the shelf and music on the radio never cease to amaze me.  Our precious children hear and see way more than they should.  Our days were nothing of evil compared to what is out there today.  It is sad.  Life is tough.  How can we avoid exposure to all this? 

Well, we cannot avoid it.  But, we can do the very best to lay a foundation at home to give our children something to stand firmly on.  We can build a house on the Rock for them.  We can plant seeds in them that God will water.  He will grow a garden of strength, protection and discernment.  He will create a filtered mind where no evil thoughts will remain.  We must remember these are His children, we are simply the ones with 'skin on' whom He chose to teach, guide and lead through His Truth.  How can we do this amongst our busy lives?

Well, this must be a priority.  Nothing out in this world matters more than the hearts of your children.  We are given them as gifts from our Father.  He trusts us enough to raise these children up in a way pleasing to Him.  God has huge plans and purposes for these children and we must encourage, comfort, lead and grow their faith every step of the way.  We may receive money from our careers to help pay the bills; but, the price received for fulfilling God's plan as parents far exceeds any check deposited into your bank account.  Forget working overtime in the office, playing on the computer, cleaning the house so it shines or talking on the phone to your best friend.  Work overtime on your child's spirit, play with them, clean up their minds so they shine, talk with them and engage in their lives.  Grow with them.

"As for everyone who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice, I will show you what they are like.  They are like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built." (Luke 6:47-48)  

I know it is tough.  Trust me; I fail daily in completing all that I should as a mother.  But, God knows your heart and sees you striving to create a home centered around Him.  He will bless all of your effort.  He will take care of anything you missed or fell short on.  He is there to help.  He is your strength.  Use Him.  Use His Truths provided in a nice, neat Book.  Daily, seek His counsel for parenting.

Set an example for them to follow.  Seek God with all your heart and they too will follow.  They are navigating through this world just as you are.  Provide answers, be approachable and avoid overreacting to situations.  Help them calmly walk through this world and safely come out with much stronger spirits by leaning on Truth.  Hang in there parents!  We are in this together and will do the best possible. 

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for providing strength for me to complete the role of mother.  I don't have a clue as to what I am doing or what is to come; but, I know You are constant and will never change in any circumstance.  I run to You with a willingness to learn how to fulfill this role.  Teach me, guide me and provide the words I need to raise my children up in a way pleasing to You.  Thank You for making me a mom and trusting me with such a task!  I love You.     

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Friday, February 24, 2012

Perfect Timing, Perfect Speed

A sunny day in February was not going to waste for my children.  I told them to go out on the front deck to play before we needed to leave for the evening.  I assured them I would be coming in five minutes.  I found myself completing a few chores and five minutes passed.  My son peeped his head in the door and asked me to play baseball with him.  "Sure," I said, feeling honored to be asked!  I finished up my task and headed out the door. 

A ball, two gloves and an eight year old wait patiently for me to begin the game.  We passed several times between one another with pretty good success.  My daughter watched as one ball after another hit soft leather.  Then, it happened. . .

A ball thrown to my son missed the glove.  It made direct contact with his lip.  Yes, it bled and it hurt.  He cried, my daughter cried and I wanted to cry.  Now, to my defense, I did not mean to do this.  It was thrown right to him, but the glove did not cooperate in catching it.  Right then and there, I was fired from playing baseball with my son.  My one chance to be the cool mom and bond with him by playing baseball and I ruined it after about five minutes.  I was benched!

Do ever feel like this in life?  A big opportunity you have been waiting for finally comes and BOOM!  You totally strike out.  Nothing goes as planned and you walk away slumped over, head down. 

An interview you waited five years to get finally comes.  Your attire is perfect, hair fixed nicely, briefcase in hand, smile on face, fresh breath and an extended hand to greet the interviewer.  After the handshake, nothing goes as planned.  Your words run together.  You speak only about all the degrees earned and achievements made, but leave out character traits and motivation.  You tried way too hard to impress the other and your nerves took over.  No callback occurred. 

Or, a local organization is in need of hands, minds and time from individuals.  It sounds like a great opportunity, so you volunteer without question.  Once involved, the position consumes your time, leaves you exhausted and creates bitterness towards a beneficial organization in your city.  Rushing into something without ample thought will lead to broken spirits and frustrated minds.  You set yourself up for failure when undertaking a task not intended for you in that season of life.

Don't give up.  In life, sometimes we try too hard, rush into things, allow our passion to override logic or just plain get it wrong.  Another opportunity will rise.  Learn from the mistakes made and know that one failed attempt does not make you a failure.

"being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience," (Colossians 1:11)

Also, many opportunities exist daily for us to spread our faith and reach out to others.  But, we must do so carefully.  Seek God for discernment on which chances to take and which to hold off for a while.  All things work out for the good of those who love God.  He will direct your paths and show you where He needs you to act.  Wait on Him.  Avoid rushing into something because it sounds good, getting so excited for the opportunity that you try to impress the other or becoming so passionate that you scare the other away.  Chill and let God shine through you.  Take Him with you everywhere you go to assure that words will come at just the right moment, decisions will be clear and being you will be exactly what is needed to show Christ to the other.

"Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction." (2 Timothy 4:2)

Learn from my poor little man's swollen lip that trying too hard never works out.  Don't throw the ball to fast or hard.  Yet, throw the ball at just the right time with just enough speed that it lands perfectly in the glove.  Once caught, the other's eyes can see clearly and learn from you.  If we do it in our timing and our speed, we end up turning them away and leave wrong impressions.  Don't give up, give the situation to God and try again differently next time. 

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for second chances and lessons learned.  I often let my passion and emotions override my actions.  I rush into situations, try way too hard to impress another and get it wrong.  I end up turning others off and pushing them away.  Give me the words, patience and actions to spread Truth to others in a way that is pleasing to You.  Shine through me.  Show me how to relate to others without scaring them off or ruining the moment.  I am here, use me!  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig
  

Thursday, February 23, 2012

Regain Focus

Today, I want to look over another discipline: Abstinence.  These include solitude, silence, frugality, chastity, secrecy, fasting and sacrifice.  The disciplines of abstinence help remove destructive and unhelpful things in our lives through specific acts to bring regain focus.  Often times, these practices help others clearly see the way God commands them to move.  The lack of distractions and vices allows our minds to hear from God and continually converse with Him.  In order to practice these, one must feel led to by God. 

Fasting: God will clearly show you this discipline is necessary.  Lent is a time to fast from a particular substance or action.  Avoidance of the specific item allows for a cleansing period.  Sins are confessed and prayer is lifted throughout the allotted time.  The individual clings closely to God for guidance and forgiveness.  Some engage in fasting from all food at various times throughout the year.  The individual prays deeply for themselves or another and seek God for healing or an answer. This time is very intimate between the fasting individual and God.  There may be other ways to fast than from food.  It would not be safe for me to choose food, if led to a fast, due to my history with Anorexia.  I could choose one particular food, one of my favorite events or give up something that brings comfort to my life.  Fasting is a spiritual discipline, not a diet plan.  Seek God for clarity on what to fast from in your life if called to use this practice.

 "so that it will not be obvious to others that you are fasting, but only to your Father, who is unseen; and your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you." (Matthew 6:18) 

Solitude: I love this one.  Take time away from life and focus on God's Word.  People in this world love to give their opinion, tell you the answers to troubles or fix the problem.  Things, events in this world take over our thoughts and they begin conforming to the patterns of this world.  We must slow down, step back and spend time in silence.  Clearing our mind from distractions, opinions and pressures will bring such clarity to where God would like us to move next.  This practice can be done daily; should be done daily.  The ways of this world come on stronger with each generation.  Do not lose solitude with God; yet, stay focused on His Truth.  Run to Him first for answers.  Give every thought to Him.  He will renew your mind.

"All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath." (Ephesians 2:3)

Sacrifice: Look around right now.  You are better than blessed.  A roof stands high above your head, your eyes read these words on a computer, your body carries out necessary functions, food sits in the kitchen, etc.  Guess what?  Some individuals wake up this morning outside, on concrete and not sure if they will get to eat today.  Some lay in a hospital bed not sure of the days left to live.  And still some try to live among everyone without a disabled body.  Practice the discipline of sacrifice.  Here is another one done daily.  Do without a pleasure to help another.  Please God by caring for another child of His.  When packing your lunch today, make an extra sandwich to give to the homeless individual you see every day on the way to work.  Make some cookies for the neighbor down the road who lives alone.  Visit the sick.  Pray for the disabled.  Seek God for ways to live a little less comfortable so one of His children can live a little more comfortable.  He created us to help one another, work as a team and keep our eyes open to the hurts of others.  Move out of the "what about me" lifestyle and take your love out into the world.  It does not cost much to sacrifice; yet, the reward is immeasurable.

"And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased." (Hebrews 13:16)

The disciplines are Scriptural and can be studied in more depth by picking up the Instruction Manual for our life.  Do not simply go by what I write.  Seek God for discipline and He will show you the way to live according to His Word.  Seek Him to find what discipline practice looks like in your life.  It is amazing the places He will take you if only you obey and practice discipline.  Your blessings will overflow. 

God, thank you for another day.  Guide my thoughts, actions and words to be pleasing to You.  Give me proper discipline and align my life with Your Will.  I want nothing to do with my will.  Open my eyes to what fasting needs to occur in my lifestyle.  May I make it a priority to spend time in solitude to focus on You.  Show me what I can sacrifice to bless another one of Your children.  Use me as a vessel to shine Your light and begin by disciplining me so I may rid myself of any offensive, ugliness in my life.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Engage in a Relationship

Maturity includes learning self-discipline.  Children look to their parents for discipline, learning right from wrong.  Parents play a dire role in teaching children.  Children learn by example more than words.  They watch you make decisions and follow in your footsteps. 

The time comes when parents no longer hold the child's hand and decision require immediate attention.  We pray that the foundation laid and the example set will help the child make the right choice.  Seasons of life bring various trials and change constantly, but our example and morals should remain constant.  How can we stay strong, constant and teach by example?  We must learn from our Father and practice discipline in our own lives.

I will explain some disciplines.  To learn more, pick up His Book today and begin reading.  In there, we learn from His example, His constant character and gain strength to make the right decisions.  I want to look at the disciplines of engagement today.

These include study, worship, celebration, service, prayer, submission, fellowship, confession.  Studying these in depth and putting them into practice in our lives will enable us to build the right kind of attitude and habit to set the example God intended.  I will not go into each of them, but do want to touch on a few. 

Prayer: We must talk to God first to receive guidance.  He desires a conversation every moment of our day.  There is no particular position, place, time or words required for prayer.  Talk with Him just as you would to others.  Express your innermost feelings and concerns.  He cares so much for you and wants to help.  He just needs to hear from you.  Devote your day to prayer.  At work, stop for a second and ask for strength to make it through the day.  At home, lift up your voice to Him for direction in parenting or healing in marriage.  At all times, reach to Him.  Let Him lead. 

Pull Him closer in prayer:
"What other nation is so great as to have their gods near them the way the LORD our God is near us whenever we pray to him?" (Deuteronomy 4:7) 

Study: Take the time to learn His Truth.  We cannot understand anything without deep study.  In order to learn rules, one must study the handbook; to gain knowledge, one must take time to learn the material; to find truth, one must go to the source.  We have been given a Handbook full of material from the one True Source.  It is in those pages that instruction, wisdom and valid teaching.  Read the Scriptures and apply them to your life.  Let Him teach.    

Pull Him closer in study:
"For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide we might have hope." (Romans 15:4) 

Confession: Rid yourselves of sin.  Confess to Him the past and move into the future with Him in the center.  There is nothing you have done that He will refuse to forgive.  Come to Him, lay it all at the cross and repent of your sins.  Strive each day to walk according to His Will.  If you fall, which we all fall short of His glory daily, run to Him.  He will pick you up, dust you off and show you the way to move.  Believe in Him and trust His Ways.  Forgive others just as He forgave you.  Set the example for others to see Him shine through you.  Let Him forgive.

Pull Him closer in confession:
"Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper,
   but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy." (Proverbs 28:13)

Engage in a relationship with God.  In doing so, your life overflows with blessings, you fulfill His plan and become a servant of God.  The example set for all to see will bring many to know God.  Be that vessel.  Bring discipline in your life so to remain constant in every situation that comes your way.

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for the discipline I can rely on in You.  I know You are constant and set the example for me to follow.  I can turn to You always.  In every situation, You remain and provide strength.  As I pray, You listen and respond.  As I study, You teach and lead.  As I confess, You accept me and forgive.  Thank You.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

A Weekend to Remember

We all have them.  We have people in our lives that hold a special place in our hearts.  When you leave their presence, you feel uplifted, revived and blessed.  With them, you laugh, cry, unload anxiety and comfortably sit in silence.  We all have them.

I had the privilege of spending quality time with my three favorite women within a two day span.  These three hold a most special place in my heart and I am blessed to have them in my life.  From one I gain wisdom, one I feel comfort and another I am encouraged.  All three love me for me.  Each has seen me at my very worst, yet never left my side.  They remained through thick and thin.  Never once did they condemn me, give up on me or ridicule me.  They bring love into my life. 

Distance may lessen our visiting, but we do not allow this factor to ruin our connection.  Each time we meet, it is as though we have seen one another every day.  Our hearts do not feel the physical distance.  I pray for these women, carry their burdens and thank God for them.  I am confident that they do the same.  They bring love into my life.

I walked away uplifted.  My Memaw provided a couple hours of conversation packed with wisdom.  She reminded me of the necessity to spend time with my children.  She opened my eyes to the importance of engaging in their every day.  Sit with them on the floor, pay attention to their words and love them with all your heart.  One day, they will be grown and that time will be lost.  Enjoy them, protect them and comfort them always.  As a parent, the world weighs heavily on your shoulders.  Stand firm on His Truth to gain strength through every trial, hardship and pain encountered.  Each season with your child will be different, but God stays the same.  Lean on Him for consistent help in parenting.

I walked away revived.  My mother provided comfort that brought a light to my dark season.  She reminded me that my experiences were "normal" and that everything will be okay.  Her comforting words, hugs and actions lifted a hundred pounds of worry from my shoulders.  She shared some of her past to help me see that the season I am in does not last forever.  My eyes saw circumstances differently as she explained the importance of perseverance.  Hang in there, do not give up and one day you will look back and realize how strong that season of life made you.  Stand firm on His Truth to create a character in you that will prepare you for future seasons.  Lean on Him for consistent help in chaotic times.

I walked away feeling overly blessed.  My best friend provided encouragement to fill my days.  She just listened, shared and allowed me to be me for a day.  Nothing stayed hidden.  She reminded me that life will throw hardballs your way, but there is nothing you cannot handle with God by your side.  He will bring good out of all things and catch every tear that falls.  She helped me see that being real is important and voicing your feelings keep a relationship healthy (done productively, not in shouting arguments).  Relationships are tough, but with communication, honesty, encouragement, support and love, they will remain strong.  In a relationship, make decisions based in the best interest of the other.  Avoid selfish acts.  Forgive always.  Love wholeheartedly.  Stand firm on His Truth to learn what He expects for your role in the relationship.  Lean on Him for consistent help in relationships.

God brings people into our lives daily.  Some stay for just a little while, others a bit longer; but, few remain for a lifetime.  Cherish each person and thank God for the relationships given.  Soak up the wisdom, comfort and encouragement that He shines through others.  Then, reciprocate.

"In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus" (Philippians 2:5)

God, thank you for another day.  Thank you for sending these three women into my life.  Keep our relationships strong and shine through each of us to help one another through whatever life may bring our way.  Thank You.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Saturday, February 18, 2012

Questions Counteract Faith

What - When - Where - Why - Who - Which - Whose - How

These little words are powerful.  I am confident in saying, we use these numerous times throughout our day.  Questions overtake conversations.  They help in getting to know one another, planning and learning new skills.  Also, questions keep us in the "know" about events taking place and situations occurring all around the world.  If question words did not exist, our conversations would appear bleak, selfish and superficial.  Our wisdom would remain stagnate.

So, questions used in the correct manner are fantastic, a growing tool.  But, there is a season and time for everything under the sun.

"a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to be silent and a time to speak," (from Ecclesiastes 3)

Searching for answers in life may get you in trouble.  Some things are better left unknown.  Answers may bring more trouble to our thoughts and anxiety in our days than necessary.  Our flesh desires to know everything.  As our flesh questions and wonders, Satan uses the answers received to manipulate and send us in a spiral.  For example, if a wife feels insecure in her marriage; she will seek out and search for evidence to confirm her thoughts.  Her mind already focuses on the worse case scenario.  Satan loves this and uses this situation to bring the wife down.  A wedge grows between the married couple and increases risk for destruction.  If a parent thinks the worst of their child and believes the child can make no decision on their own; the parent will search for areas where the child fails.  The relationship revolves around the negative things the child displays.   

Some words and questions are better left unsaid.  Questioning everything and everybody counteracts faith.  With each question spoken, the other individual may feel lack of trust from you.  With each question spoken to God about the situation we find ourselves in, He feels lack of faith from you.  For example, if your boss asks you to complete a task before leaving for the day, but continually reminds you or inquires if the task is complete; you may feel the boss does not trust you.  If life throws some hardballs your way and you immediately question the situations; faith lessens.  Our flesh feeds these questions and becomes engrossed in a pity-party.  Satan loves pity-parties.  He can take them and fog our thoughts from seeing the good God has in store for us. 

Just as the boss displays lack of trust by continual inquiry, the wife searches for confirmation of negative thoughts, the parent believes the worst and we engage in pity-parties; our questioning God is no different.  Faith is confidence and trust in something or someone.  Our questions counteract our confidence and trust in the One who knows all the answers and works all situations out for the good of those who love Him.  Questions are great when used correctly.  As our minds wonder into the what-if, why me, how come, etc., Satan can manipulate our thoughts to diminish our faith. 

God has our plan and purpose in His hands.  Our time here is mapped out completely by our Creator.  He breathed life into you and me for a specific reason.  So, avoid questioning Him.  He knows just how things and situations should end.  He is the beginning and the end.  Trust in Him wholeheartedly and know that He who began a good work in you and gave you life will carry it out completely.  What ever situation or disappointment in this world may come; stand confident that God will see you through.  Use Him to guide and decide your steps. 

Use questions to learn, engage in another's life and plan events.  But, don't question our great God.  Trust in Him, lean on Him and keep thoughts focused on Him.  Keep Satan out of relationships by placing God at the center.  God will reveal answers in His time and will give you strength to receive the answer.

 "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." (Romans 15:13)  

God, thank you for another day.  Help me focus on positive and rid myself of questioning others.  Bring trust into every relationship You have blessed me with here.  I am sorry for questioning You and throwing a pity-party for myself.  I found out that only Satan arrived at the party and it was destructive to my walk with You.  I place my trust in You and the plans for my future.  I am here.  Use me in all the ways You desire.  I am Your servant, no questions asked!  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig 

 

Friday, February 17, 2012

Give Him the Wheel!

Have you ever witnessed a car wreck?  Sometimes, you see it coming.  The vehicle begins to swerve, slip on ice or veer off the road.  It may take a bit for the collision to occur, but you know the end result will be contact with another vehicle, the embankment or guardrail.  Anxiety and fear rush through you and you dial 911 quickly.  Emergency vehicles arrive and begin assessing the situation.  They rush to the driver and passengers to bring comfort and healing.

Have you ever driven past the scene of an accident?  You may only see remnants.  The vehicle appears crushed, on its top or a bit scratched.  Worry and sadness come over you as you process the situation.  The EMS, firefighters and policemen clean up the area so traffic may flow freely and the wreck can be forgotten.  The drivers and passengers begin a journey of healing, physically and emotionally.  For some, this may take a while; yet, others just move on and learn from the accident.  And still others may not learn a thing and push the accident far from their thoughts.

What happens in a wreck?  Okay, yes, a driver loses control of the vehicle and eventually comes in contact with a surface to stop it.  But, how is control lost?  News reporters state various reasons for accidents: alcohol, texting, looking in the backseat, road conditions, falling asleep, health conditions (heart attack, seizure, etc.), mechanical problems and more.  We hear these stories and may feel concerned for a while or sorry for those involved; but, we think this would never happen to us.  We continue driving as we always have and take no lessons from it. 

Well, accidents happen around the world daily, hourly and by the minute.  We very well could be in that situation, either the victim or the one at fault.  We must be careful, stay focused and keep our eyes open to dangerous conditions.  We must protect ourselves as best we can and avoid distractions that lead to destruction. 

Correlate this to life.  Have you ever witnessed a life approaching a wreck?  Has that life ever been your own? 

Well, I have experienced many crashes in my day and finally have a feel for when life begins to slip out from under me.  I see danger ahead.  I hear warnings and signs directing a detour.  Most roadways do not allow u-turns for vehicles; but thank God that He allows u-turns on the path for our soul.  He will gather you up and bring you to safety.  He will help you avoid hazardous ground.  He will keep you on the straight path.  One catch, you must give Him the wheel.

"Yet I am always with you; you hold me by my right hand.  You guide me with your counsel, and afterward you will take me into glory." (Psalm 73:23-24)  
We cannot and do not have the stability, strength or smarts to remain safe.  If we hold the wheel and control every move, a crash is bound to occur.  Our bodies grow tired and weary.  Our vision fails to see ahead.  We lose control!

As I begin to swerve, reaching for other things/people for advice, looking behind and letting the past define me or approach danger in my path; God opens my eyes to see that I need Him.  I cannot do any of this on my own.  I will surely wreck, and have wrecked.  Thank God for saving me with each crash.  For years, I took the same path, hit the same walls and walked away from the same destructive scene learning nothing.  I shoved the incident deep in my soul and forgot.  No more of this insane living.  I want God to keep me from crashing and help me learn warning signs, to reach for Him and have full confidence in Him that all will work out for the good as I continue to love Him.

Learn from me and avoid the wreck.  Give Him the wheel!

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for saving me from numerous crashes.  I cannot guarantee I will not crash again, but I promise You I will learn this time and avoid that same situation again.  I need You always.  Be my driver.  I do not want to begin driving down any path without You holding the wheel.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

The Importance Behind a Number

Numbers are everywhere in our daily lives.  Every number existing in our lives holds great meaning.  Think about it. . .

The electric bill explains the amount of energy used in one month.
The balance in a bank account determines our budget.
A Social Security number tracks everything done since birth.
A driver's license contains numbers all over it that describe only you.
Our days, months and years are numbered to help remember specific moments in time. 

The list could go on for a while.  Think about the importance numbers play in our lives.  They determine our actions, describe our very being, place limits on us, follow us everywhere we travel and make up our time spent here on Earth.  Without numbers guiding our lives, we would be lost.  Think about it. . .

Invitations could not indicate start and end times.
Sporting events could not determine a winner.
Earning a degree would be impossible without grades.
Memories may get lost without a date to pinpoint time. 
Without medical stats, we would never know if something were wrong with our bodies.

I work in a bank and see numbers the whole time I am clocked in.  We crunch numbers often and use numbers to complete the day.  My job would be impossible without numbers.  We had a meeting once and our boss said a statement that made complete sense in all realms of life.  He said, "Numbers do not lie; they tell the story!"  SO TRUE!  Can you think of a number in your life that holds no meaning?

Well, here comes the correlation of my above story to our spiritual life.  All these numbers we encounter daily mean so much here on Earth.  But, that is it; beyond our temporary life here, those numbers are meaningless.  Yet, we spend so much time and energy focused on the numbers which describe our story here.  What if I told you that the most important numbers in our lives are neglected every day?  What if I told you that there are a set of numbers that tell the greatest story?

What am I talking about?
The Story of our lives.  Our reason for existence.  The way to an Eternal life with our Lord and Savior.  These numbers are the only ones that hold the true meaning of our lives.

"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.  For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him." (John 3:16-17)

"In him we were also chosen, having been predestined according to the plan of him who works out everything in conformity with the purpose of his will,  in order that we, who were the first to put our hope in Christ, might be for the praise of his glory." (Ephesians 1:11-12)

"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11)

These numbers tell The Story.  Begin reading Genesis and let the numbers lead you through the Word intended for our lives.  These numbers never change, hold meaning throughout every generation and describe our very being.  Focus on His Word, His Truth and His Will available to all in a well-put together Book.  Pick one up today and finger through the pages, reading the sequential words to help guide your life.  Find out how to live here temporarily, and to LIVE eternally in Heaven next to our Creator. 

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for loving me so much to breathe life into my being.  Thank You for sending Jesus to die for the sins of all.  Help me define myself and my live according to the numbers found in Your Word.  Keep my focus on Truth.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Persevere

So, we found in Scripture that love protects, trusts and hopes.  Wait; there is one more I would like to hit on.  We encourage others to never give up.  Things will get better and this too shall pass.  But, when it comes to a true, intimate, deep relationship with another; are we living out our own advice?  I would answer no in most situations I faced over the years.  I run away from tough times, conflicting conversations and avoid arguments at all costs.  When times are tough, I get running (in the opposite direction).  I have learned over the years that love cannot flourish through avoidance, quitting or silence.  God revealed to me this eagerness to give up.  I do not like learning the hard way; yet, as I ran from situations and relationships, I created my own hardships.  Therefore, I ended up learning an even harder way.  Thank God for His perseverance in my life.  He never gives up on me and loves me throughout every situation.

Love perseveres. . .
Pray.
Endure.
Reassure.
Solid.
Even-tempered.
Vivacious attitude.
Empower.
Resist temptation.
Effort.
Stand on His Word.

Pray together and gain wisdom from our Father of which way to move.  He will provide strength needed to continue through any situation.  Endure hardships together.  Do not run from tough times and leave the other to deal with it alone.  Satan loves to prey on lone souls facing hardships.  But, where two or more gather in God's name, there He shall be.  He already defeated Satan and will take over the hardship for you.  He knows exactly how to get rid of Satan's attacks.  Reassure each other at all times.  Build up the other with words of encouragement and peace.  Stay Solid in faith, be a support and never give up.  Display an Even-temper.  Avoid bitterness, resentment and anger.  Do not go to sleep angry, for it will carry on to the next day and increase in severity.  Hold your arms out in comfort for one another.  Display a Vivacious attitude.  Avoid idle, unhappy lifestyles.  Pray for open eyes to see the good and count the blessings given every day.  Try to lift each other up, not pull each other down.  Empower each other to keep on keeping on.  Resist temptation to stray or give up.  Stay clear of situations which steal your energy, leaving you empty.  You will have nothing positive to bring in the relationship.  Giving into temptations will grow a wedge to separate the relationship.  Give 100% Effort to the relationship.  Do not give up.  Give wholehearted love. 

Finally, in every aspect of the relationship and in order to grow the deepest of love; Stand on His Word.  Read His instructions and follow His example.  He is love, the true Source.  Let Him teach and lead you.  Persevere always; for perseverance leads to completeness in faith. 

"always perseveres." (1 Corinthians 13)  

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for strength to face all that comes my way.  Help me to endure, not run; to resist temptation, not place my energy in the wrong places; to love wholehearted, not with laziness; and to stand on Your Word to have a solid foundation, not doing my will but Yours.  Thank You for the relationships I hold and help me to strengthen each one by protecting, trusting, hoping and persevering at all times.  Keep my attention on the path laid for me.  Help me be a blessing to those on the path and may my words and actions please You.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Monday, February 13, 2012

Hope

Daydreaming comes upon all of us.  The possibilities are endless when entering this state of mind.  Our visions bring smiles and a sense of hope for what could be.  Our desires, hopes and dreams are possible if we just believe.  God will take all of these and work them out for the good of His plan.  Go to Him.  He knows the desires of your heart and wants you to receive blessings.  First, you must have faith in Him and accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior.  Then, follow God's plan.  Hope in the One who loves you. 

Hope brings love to a deeper level with our relationships here as well.  We must believe in the other and have confidence in the future life together.  Going back to childlike love includes hope.  Children feel secure in their relationships with loved ones and express their dreams openly.  Their possibilities seem endless because their hope is not lost.

Love hopes. . .
Honor
Open
Passion
Engage
Stand on His Word

Loving one another goes farther than just empty words.  Honor through actions takes love to a greater level.  Place full confidence in the other and inspire their dreams.  Praise them for achievements, share with them in glory and never belittle.  Avoid jealousy when they accomplish great tasks and celebrate right next to them.  Share joy through honor.  Help Open doors, hearts and minds.  Don't shut the door on the other's ideas.  Come to one another with open hearts and minds.  Let go of anything hindering full submission.  Provide that comfortable atmosphere for the other to come and share their full heart.  Share in the Passion the other holds for a particular goal.  Inquire more about their dreams and hopes for the future.  Engage in the lives of each other and find out what the other expects.  Really listen and encourage one another to reach attainable goals.  Do not shoot one another down; yet, inspire one another to keep on keeping on!  Stand on His Word which fills us with confidence.  He knows our deepest wants and needs.  He will fulfill those in accordance to His Will.  Read the Bible together to increase faith.  Increased faith grows two hearts closer.  

Let God take over and bring confidence into the relationship.  He will open your eyes and hearts to regain hope in what is yet to come.  He will fill both with strength to accomplish all things on their path.  Accomplish these together, believe in one another and know that He is walking with you.  Two people full of hope in one another will flourish and love will grow.  Enjoy the relationship and live out your dreams.

always hopes, (1 Corinthians 13)

One more left. . .

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for placing hope and desire in my heart.  Thank You for sending such great people to share these with.  My heart held no joy, hope, love or faith.  It was cold and dead.  Thank You for reviving my heart and opening my eyes to see the reason I am here.  Keep my eyes focused on You and the relationships given each day.  Give me full confidence in my loved ones and eliminate any jealousy so I may celebrate in their accomplishments.  Help me encourage them in their endeavors and passions.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Sunday, February 12, 2012

Trust

A child trusts their loved ones to care for them.  Their heart is placed in the hands of loved ones and they lean on them for guidance.  Children do not ask twenty questions for assurance that the other is faithful or fulfilled their end of a deal.  Questions are not used to test if the other lives up to the promises made.  Children trust.

Let us bust the brick of distrust from our wall around our heart.  Refocus relationships to trust.  Without confidence in one another, relationships fail and hearts break.  This only strengthens the wall around our hearts.  Learn from our little ones and gain back confidence in our relationships.

Love Trusts. . .
Think
Reveal secrets.
Unite.
Spend time.
Talk.
Stand on His Word.

Keep relationships in the forefront of your mind with every decision.  Think about your action.  Ask yourself if this decision, word or action will jjeopardize the trust level in a relationship.  If answered yes, don't do it!  Whatever the situation, leave and never look back.  Separate yourself from anything hindering wholehearted trust in the relationship.  Reveal any secrets from the past or present.  Forgive and move on into the future transparent.  Unite as one.  Place God at the center and begin on the same page to build trust.  As thoughts conflict, Satan will place a wedge between the two.  The relationship becomes a battlefield; the one desires for the other to think just like them.  Come together, reach a compromise and grow love on trust.  Spend time together.  Get to know one another at the deepest level.  Absence does not make the heart grow fonder.  Absence helps the hearts grow distant.  Absence presents the two with tempting situations.  Satan loves tempting situations and does his best work in vulnerable atmospheres.  Talk when spending time together.  Tell each other of your needs and desires.  Conversations bond and help to soften the hardest of hearts.  Stand on His Word.  Come together; place your trust in Him to take away all fears, concerns and anything that hinders wholehearted trust.  Read the Bible together and gain more knowledge on what trust looks like.  He sets the perfect example.

He will teach you how to love the way He intends.  God created each of His children to love one another as He loves us.  Be childlike and trust wholeheartedly.

"always trusts,"  (1 Corinthians 13)

God, thank you for another day.  Help me in my relationships to throw off anything hindering full trust.  Rid me of past experiences and help me to avoid holding them against the loved ones You brought into my life.  I want to trust wholeheartedly but I don't know how to repair my damaged, untrusting heart.  Show me how and heal the damage.  Soften my heart with deeper conversations.  Open my ears to listen to others and focus on bonding with them in relationships.  I want others to see how much I do love them by trusting them with my heart.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Saturday, February 11, 2012

Protect

We begin life as an innocent child.  Our speech is limited, actions lack thought, reasoning immature; yet, we truly love the closest in our lives.  Children desire to spend quality time with parents, friends and family.  Little ones protect their possessions and love ones.  Children trust wholeheartedly, hopes in all good things to come and persevere in all endeavors. 

Growing up increases our vocabulary (not always for the good), our actions come with better thought and reasoning grows in logic.  We gain skills, likes and dislikes, independence and a greater spectrum of friends.  Unfortunately, with all this gain, we tend to lose the capacity to love one another.  Why?  Our selfish thoughts hold us captive and prevent us from loving as we should.  Over the years, people in this world disappointed, broke our heart and abandoned us.  We keep a list of the wrongs done and dare not find ourselves in that same position again.  So, we place a brick wall around our hearts and allow VERY few to enter.  Even the few that enter do not come in completely.  Love cannot flourish in parts.  We must go back to childlike love in our marriages, families and friends. 

The next few days, I am going to share some things I believe may help us refocus on how to love, break down the walls around our hearts and heal painful pasts.  My brick wall stood about 10 feet high and daily I work to bust each brick.  I feel as though I am down to a 3 foot wall now.  It is tough and I know how past experiences hinder our hearts to love again wholeheartedly.  Let's work together and pray for one another to reach that level of love again. 

Love protects. . .
Provide.
Respect.
Observe.
Take time to listen.
Eliminate selfish thoughts.
Carry one another's burdens.
Talk about fears.
Stand on His Word.

In relationships, strive to Provide the needs and desires of others.  Respect and avoid belittlement.  Observe to keep in check of any life changes.  Take the time to not only hear what the other says, but listen to each word.  Meditate on the conversations and give proper feedback at the right time.  Eliminate the "What about Me?" mentality.  If we consume ourselves with ourselves, we cannot love another wholeheartedly.  Carry the burdens of each other.  If one enters a stormy season, the other holds their hand and is there to catch should a fall occur.  Talk about fears accumulated over the years of bad relationships.  Satan creates the best of wedges out of silent fears and unsaid struggles.  The wedge grows and separates the relationship.  Stand on His Word.  God is love.  What better place to learn about the components of love than from the true source?  Read the Bible together and build a relationship with God at the center.  He loves you so much and will PROTECT your lives.  Let Him in and let Him love.  He will set the example.

"It always protects,. . ." (1 Corinthians 13)

More tomorrow. . .

God thank you for another day.  Thank You for protecting my heart every day.  Help me bust up the last of my brick wall around my heart.  Open up my eyes to see how to love others.  Remove any selfish thoughts which hold me back from fully engaging in my loved one's lives.  Feed me Your Word so I may follow Your example and express my love productively.  Rid me of past pain and dead relationships that left a scar on my heart.  Help me protect the ones I love.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Friday, February 10, 2012

Forget the Pleas . . . Repent and Learn

One night, my son grew angrier by the minute.  First, he misbehaved and television time was removed.  Then, another misbehavior led to reading time being removed.  My husband was not home for the evening, so I was enemy #1.  If you have never been there, it isn't that fun and I suggest you avoid it at all costs.  Well, as he lay in bed, he expressed anger towards his current position.

Many pleas sounded from his room to change this mean mother's mind.  I stood firm on the punishment and ignored the outcries.  His feelings were valid for sure.  His anger justified.  But, the punishment necessary to learn that misbehavior is not accepted. 

With each statement proclaimed, I recalled a time when I felt just as he did that night.  I think we could all relate to at least one of his statements.  He belted off a list of people in his life that loved and cared for him (guess what?  I was not on that list).  Everyone lets him down.  People are always mean to him.  He never feels love and always suffers.  His sister never gets in trouble.  I think you get the idea.

Did you catch a few of his words?  Never.  Always.  Everyone.  These are some powerful words to be spewing out.  Yet, don't we feel this way when stuck in a terrible situation?  Our eyes cannot see clearly the blessings; our stubborn minds cannot take discipline and our anger bubbles over towards anyone present at the time. 

"Blessed is the one whom God corrects;
   so do not despise the discipline of the Almighty." (Job 5:17)  

"Whoever spares the rod hates their children,
   but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them." (Proverbs 13:24)

"They disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, in order that we may share in his holiness.  No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it." (Hebrews 12:10-11)

Discipline produces wisdom.  We learn from mistakes made; therefore, strengthen our walk.  If discipline did not occur, how would we ever learn right from wrong?  Our actions would continue to lead down a path of destruction.  Discipline hurts.  I will not deny that, but it is necessary for spiritual maturity.  We do not know the exact steps to take on the path laid for us.  One thing we do know is that God holds the big picture and He knows every step leading straight to Heaven.  It is through His Son, Jesus our Savior, which we will arrive in Eternal life with Him.  It takes correction from time to time so our feet will get back in line with our path.  Our flesh may lead us astray, but He will correct us quickly.  Humble yourselves and listen to the discipline He gives. 

Discipline produces respect.  We respect our Father, for He knows the life of righteousness and peace.  Only through His teaching will we reap this harvest.  He loves us enough to guide us and warn of faltering steps.  Listen, respect and honor our Father.  Do not hate our Disciplinarian.  Do not waste your breath pleading for things to be the way YOU believe they should.  Repent and learn from wrong decisions.  He will strengthen you and the next time a similar situation occurs you will know exactly what to do.  Thank Him for each lesson.

God, thank you for another day.  Thank you for teaching me the right way to go.  Open my heart to accept discipline and change my ways to align with Your plan for my life.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig   

Thursday, February 9, 2012

Time Apart from Worldly Influences

Why do you go to church?  Or, do you go to church?  If not, then why?
These very personal questions need immediate and constant evaluation.  We need to keep a check on the reasons we attend so to not become idle in our worship, drift away slowly, feel forced to attend or simply go through the motions every Sunday.  God desires a relationship with us and loves to hear from us apart from worldly influences.  This day is ONE hour that we can shut out our busy lives, give all our anxieties to Him and delve deeper into His Word.  God uses church leaders as vessels to teach Scripture and spur others to learn more throughout the week.  As we take the messages on Sunday and apply them to our lives Monday thru Saturday, we see the mighty work of God in our lives.  We feel a closer bond as we cling to Scripture and take the points God wanted us to hear from the message. 

I urge you to find a church home.  Commit to a family of believers, led by those who seek God wholeheartedly.  God will use your church family to comfort, guide, teach and build friendships that last through Eternity.  He first desires a relationship with YOU, then would like to increase the circle of friendship.  How?  Attending a church broadens that circle and helps strengthen your knowledge of the Bible.  Knowing more about the Scripture helps to follow God more closely.  Wisdom helps you understand what is expected and asked of a follower.  Fellow believers help sharpen the tools required to spread Truth everywhere He leads (see Proverbs 27:17).

So, what wakes you up every Sunday and why do you travel to church? 
Or, what keeps you from church?

Habit?  Were you taken as a child and now simply go because it is all you know?  Or, did you stop in rebellion because you were taken as a child?  Idle minds become lazy and cannot by used to further His Kingdom.  Rebellion creates a bigger wedge between you and God.  

“And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone.”
(1 Thessalonians 5:14)

To receive a check mark?  Do you arrive to church only to keep perfect attendance in God's grade book?  Do you attend only to please another family member?  This time each week is not for anyone else.  It benefits YOU to spend that precious time with your Father.  To serve Him, we must be still and listen, desire to learn and avoid pleasing everyone in our lives.  Follow His Will, not man's will. 

“Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.”
(Galatians 1:10)

Clean the slate?  Do you attend to do your "time" for the previous week's sins?  My friend, He already forgives you.  Entering a building does not wash away all your sins.  The blood of Jesus shed for us while we were still sinners cleans us!  Accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior just as you are and you will be washed white as snow.  Works count for nothing without God as your leader.  He will use you in mighty ways if you accept His free gift of grace.  God frees us from our sin as we repent and seek His heart. 

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—  not by works, so that no one can boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)

So, why does God desire a relationship, committed followers and for us to spend time with Him?  For God so loved the world that He sent Jesus to wash away all our sins.  He loves us.  The Bible states it so clearly.  God desires a relationship with His children just as you desire with your children or loved ones.  Think back to a time when a loved one sought to learn from you, hugged you with full force, displayed appreciation and love, spent quality time with you or showed you off to their friends.  Well, God desires exactly the same.  His face shines upon you as you spend quality time with Him, learn from Him, receive His love, praise Him for your blessings and show Him off to the world.  Join fellow believers to be encouraged and work together for the betterment of His Kingdom. 

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for the chance to spend today serving You.  I pray for the leaders of churches around the world to continue seeking You for advice and teaching.  I pray they let their words be Yours and their actions be pleasing to You as they serve every Sunday.  Use them as vessels to spur fellow believers to seek You every day and every moment given here.  Thank You for the relationship we have together and I pray I can grow closer to You each day.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

ONE Night is not Enough

"A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.  By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." (John 13:34-35)

"Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for each other, love one another deeply, from the heart." (1 Peter 1:22)

Valentine's Day approaches and around the world displays of affection will radiate between couples.  A specific price equals love.  The degree of love depends on the item sent or handed to each other.  On average, men will spend $166 and women $90.  Why?  Because we want to take this ONE day and express all the love our hearts hold for another.  How?  Through gift giving, of course.  Our society loves "things".  We "feel" good when possessions accumulate.  So, the gift giving idea helps us show love to another person and brings a smile to their face.

Gifts are fantastic.  Not all gifts must come through monetary means, though.  Valentine's Day is great.  Couples will go on dates (maybe the first one since last year), friends will share laughter, families will dedicate time to each other and sparks will be rekindled for ONE day. 

I want to share a writing I wrote years ago about my fantasy Valentine's Day.  I am not sure what spurred me to write it, but I have it tucked away in one of my memory folders.  Promise not to laugh or poke fun!

My Fantasy Valentine's Day
He will appear at my door with a smiling face and open arms.
Roses in hand, he will say, "I extend my love to you, my beautiful Valentine!" 
His eyes glow in the candle light and our love is evident to all.
We share a love that will never die.
This night calms my mind, eases my heart and peace I find in the arms of my loved one for ONE night!

Okay, I know, cheesy; but, true.  Though this fantasy sounds like such fun, does God intend for it to last only ONE night of the year?

"Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.  No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us." (1 John 4:11-12)

I strongly answer NO to the question.  God brings couples, families, friends and church families together to love one another.  We do not save up our love to only share ONE night of the year.  That idea is ludicrous.  How could marriages last if not daily nourished with passion and love held for one another?  How could friendships sustain if appreciated only once a year?  All families need daily attention as well.  Every day should be filled with love for one another.  God speaks clearly in His Word, numerous times about the importance to spread love throughout. 

I am here to say, our marriage and family tried to survive on ONE night a year.  We experienced sadness, disagreements and division throughout the rest of the year.  That ONE night could not keep peace or happiness in our home.  We failed to bring God at the center and follow His example.  We learned our lesson.  Every day, my husband fulfills my fantasy Valentine's Day.  God's love shines through each of us in our home and I thank Him always for opening our blind eyes.  Our bank account remains in good standing because the love shown to me requires no money.  Actions and kind words express the degree of love within our hearts.  Some days we fail to complete this task.  But, we strive every day to do/say at least one thing to express our love. 

Begin today; don't wait for Valentine's Day.  Greet your family, spouse or friend with a smile, hug and conversation about their day.  Engage in their lives.  Take time to show love more than just ONE night a year.

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for the opportunity to show love to others.  Keep my eyes open to what love looks like.  May my words and actions be pleasing to You.  Should I stumble, pick me back up and fix my feet to follow Your path.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Better is One Day in His Courts

If you could relive ONE day continuously, which one would you choose?

To answer, think deeply as to the best moments in your life.  Exclude birth of children and your wedding day (I pray you consider both these days to trump all others - if not, you better pretend for the sake of your spouse and children).  What attributed to the joy felt on the specified date?  Was the weather phenomenal?  Were you on vacation? 

The question interests me, but I have a difficult time placing my finger on ONE day.  Until now.  One day I experienced brought so much joy.  As I mentioned above, the day I received my children and married my husband trump all others.  So, the one day I recall began pleasurably and ended in pure delight. 

The day - Sunday, February 5, 2012.  I woke up with my usual routine.  My family and I ventured to church.  Worship service, as always, brought overflowing peace in my heart.  The love of others, the smiling faces and great conversations lift me up each week.  This Sunday in particular presented even more happiness.  I saw the mighty power of prayer.  God answered some of my deepest prayers that day.  I observed His mighty hand touching the lives of others.  Praise Him!

After service, we settled in our small group, which my husband leads.  He did a fantastic job teaching, leading and guiding us in the material.  I just wanted to cry for joy as I saw firsthand more work of our mighty God.  God continues to amaze me every time I watch my husband's faith grow and learn from his leading.  My deepest prayers answered again.  Praise Him!

We traveled home after picking up a friend for my son to hang out with throughout the afternoon.  They had a fabulous time and were excellent.  It is so nice to see my son connect with a friend and enjoy the company of another.  The weather was fantastic, so everyone went outside.  My son, his friend and my daughter played out back.  My husband worked on a repair outside and I took a walk.  I love my family, but it was so nice to go peacefully on a walk and enjoy the sunshine and small breeze.  God and I talked and walked for a while.  I lifted up my concerns, praises and just enjoyed His presence.  What a friend I have in Him!  Again, prayers answered.  Praise Him!

That evening, family came over to hang out and enjoy food.  I grabbed a plate along with the others and plopped down for some good conversation.  The food was great, but not my focus this time.  I talked with my company and relaxed.  Later in the evening, I went for a second round of food and sat to savor the tastes.  As I focused on the important part of the evening, my family, I noticed that I could relax, enjoy food and live for Him in every moment.  His presence remained with me and He opened my heart to let others in deeper.  He crumbled the walls of insecurity, guilt, shame, worry, pride and anxiety.  Wow, He is amazing.  He heard my prayers.  His Truth and answers destroyed Satan's lies and tactics.  Satan cannot win as long as we continue to pray harder than he can work.  God already defeated Satan, but we must reach to Him who wins the battle for us.  We cannot do this alone.  Praise Him!

The theme of my day and why I would relive it numerous times; I invited God into every moment.  I knew some triggering situations lay before me that day and I knew God was the only source to see me through.  Not only did He see me through; He answered so many other prayers that lay on my heart for years.  God never lets us down.  His mighty hand reaches out to guide and protect our lives.  He is the answer.  He will open your eyes to see Him and open your ears to hear His answers.  Listen for Him.  See Him.  Thank Him always.  Thank you God for being with me that day and the joy brought into my day.

The coolest part; I CAN relive my day I experienced.  I CAN encounter the same feeling of joy from now through Eternity.  I CAN feel unexplainable peace in every situation as I did that day.  How?  Keep the One who is constant, never changing, by my side at all times.  He will make every day worthy of reliving!  Praise Him!  

"Better is one day in your courts than a thousand elsewhere; I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God than dwell in the tents of the wicked." (Psalm 84:10)

God, thank you for another day with You.  There is not one other place I'd rather be! 
I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig

Monday, February 6, 2012

A Forty Minute Walk

I took a walk yesterday.  The sun shone brightly and warmed my skin.  The breeze flew just enough to carry all my burdens away.  The air felt crisp as I breathed in deeply with each step. 

I took a walk yesterday.  But, I did not go alone.  God came along with me and held my hand.  We talked, laughed, reminisced and observed together.  God pointed out all the wonders He provides for my enjoyment: birds of the air, people for fellowship, houses to protect, churches for worship, health and vehicles to transport.  Sadly, God also opened my eyes to the disrespect He feels due to carelessness of His children.  Trash lay on the ground, vehicles beat up and houses rundown or abandoned.  I saw the bar filled with people at 2:30 in the afternoon. 

I took a walk yesterday.  I learned more in forty minutes than I have in the past forty days.  I learned neighbors still smile at one another, passersby know how to wave, children still play outside, laughter still exists and God is too good to us.  If we wake up in the morning, breathe in fresh air, walk out the door without fear and smile; we are better than we deserve.  God is so good to us even though we neglect His land, possessions and body.  We borrow everything we have from Him, yet treat it so poorly.  Why, then, does He continue to provide

I took a walk yesterday.  As I came upon the final stretch, I faintly heard, "Jesus loves me this I know, for the Bible tells me so. . ."  The voice singing was that of little children.  Their voices sounded beautiful and brought curiosity to find the source of such truthful words.  I came upon about five children playing on a trampoline.  Such innocence, no cares in the world and belting out powerful Truth.  The answer clearly came through God's most precious creations; God is so good to us because He loves us so much.  He provides because He cares so much.  He gave us His only Son to die on a cross and wash away ALL sin.  Pick up a Bible and see it for yourself.  It is written. . .

"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.  For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him." (John 3:16-17)

"For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving, because it is consecrated by the word of God and prayer." (1 Timothy 4:4-5)

"Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment." (1 Timothy 6:17) 

"For every house is built by someone, but God is the builder of everything." (Hebrews 3:4)

To think, I had to force myself to go on this walk.  Something kept telling me to just stay home and exercise inside today.  Something?  Nah, someone - Satan!  The devil played with my thoughts to TRY and keep me from such a great bonding time with our God, our Creator and Father.  Well, good try Satan, but AGAIN Truth won over his devious lies.  Thanks God for the walk and cleaning the lies from my thoughts.

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for bringing such joy into my life.  Keep my eyes open to the goodness You offer and the patterns OF this world which not to conform.  Thank You for allowing me to borrow this land of Yours to live amongst Your children and spread Truth.  Keep my mind focused on the task at hand; to further Your Kingdom.  Thank You for walking and talking with me yesterday.  Thank You for the great messages and teachings.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig   

Sunday, February 5, 2012

You Can do This!

It is about one month into a new year.  How is that list of resolutions coming along?  Is it hidden under a stack of papers needing to be recycled; collecting dust in your office; already in the recycle bin; or you forget?

I want to send out some encouragement to stay strong in the commitments made to better your physical, financial, spiritual and emotional living.  Persevere through the toughest times.  Be patient in changing old habits.  Do not let one moment or day turn you back.  Keep moving forward, one step at a time.  Some days may be one step forward, two steps back.  Other days you will move two steps forward, one step back.  Keep focused on the right choices and seek Him for strength.

You can do all things through Christ who gives you strength!
"He gives strength to the weary
   and increases the power of the weak." (Isaiah 40:29) 

Persevere in the path laid for you and God will bless you!
"So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded.
You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised." (Hebrews 10:35-36) 

Keep focused on Him.  Don't lose heart!
"fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.  Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart." (Hebrews 12:2-3) 

Praise Him for each day given and live with a thankful heart!
"As for me, I will always have hope;
   I will praise you more and more." (Psalm 71:14)

Whether it be losing weight, eliminating an addictive behavior, spend more time with family, feeding your spirit with Truth, praying more, etc.; do all things and say all things which please God.  The better we take care of our whole being, the more He may use us to further His Kingdom.  We are here because He cared and loved us enough to breathe life into our beings.  Give 100% back to Him and take care of yourself.  He will use you in mighty ways.  Any trial faced, weakness experienced, hope lost, backslide or tear shed; He will turn it into a ministry for you.  Let Him take it all and use each moment of your life for His great plan.  Surrender to Him every minute and enjoy the places He takes you.

You can do this.  I have faith in each of you to continue on the path of good health, right choices and spiritual healing.  I know that He does not give up on you.  So, when you feel defeated, simply look up, reach up and be filled with the strength from above.  He never grows weary or weak.  Lean on Him!  Seek God-confidence, not self-confidence. 

God, thank you for another day.  Thank You for loving me so much to give Jesus, Your only Son, to die for my sins.  Continue to give me strength through each meal, snack, guilty or shameful thought and anxious times.  I reach up to You to fill me with peace and strength to make the right decisions.  Thank You for always being there for me and seeing me through every moment.  I pray for all who read this to persevere in difficult times and use You at ALL times.  I know You will see them through and bring them out much stronger than before.  Use their mess to be their ministry.  I love You.

Keep praying harder than the devil can work.
Sheree Craig